cant cum from oral..

Gonzo3 · 02-28-2008

.........Very few men,will cum just from oral sex from a woman a lot of guys say that guys give better head?.

Tickled Pink · 02-28-2008

I've never failed to make a man cum through oral - its in the technique!

rico27 · 02-28-2008

Bro, don't be hard on yourself. Try different things and enjoy!

Bbucko · 02-28-2008

Performance anxiety's a real thing. Sometimes there's just too much anticipation during oral to just let go.

lilylabia · 02-28-2008

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Originally Posted by cutedorkwho

I had my first blow job tonight, and it wasn't exactly like I expected it might be. For the first minute it felt incredible, and if i just let go I would probably cum within the first few seconds.

I kissed her and she let up a bit and then no matter how much she played with the head I couldn't cum. Stroking felt better but after 10 minutes or so of her jacking me off and sucking the head I still wasn't close. It felt like the more she played with the head the more sensitive it got to where it almost hurt to be sucked on it was too intense.

Ultimately I had to finish up with the stroking myself as she swallowed my load. We both had fun but being my first time I can't help but wondering if this is normal for the first time? I'm a virgin and she's somewhat experienced.

Hi,

About 30% of men (apparently) experience the same problem in tipping themselves over the edge whilst being given head.

Lily

Mandee · 02-28-2008

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Originally Posted by Tickled Pink

I've never failed to make a man cum through oral - its in the technique!

I completely agree with Tickled. I've never had trouble bringing a man to orgasm through oral sex. But, I probably haven't given any guys their first blow job either.

Love-it · 02-29-2008

I couldn't cum from oral the first couple of times but I quickly adapted.
It was very enjoyable but so different from anything I had experienced.

billybones · 02-29-2008

I've been having sex for 10 years and I've only cum twice from oral.

Think_Kink · 02-29-2008

It might be that nervous anxious feeling that you may not be able to come for her. Leave that context out of it and relax. It could also be that you are used to your own touch.. give it time, give her time to learn how to please you. It could be that her technique is off too... because we know you're thinking skills are effective when it comes to those things.

rec3000 · 02-29-2008

I have never had an orgasm from oral sex. A blowjob feels nice, but I think that I need a certain amaount of speed to cum. I have, without thinking, grabbed the person's head and started to fuck away. Most girls don't like this and it can ruin the moment.

WhiteTadpole · 02-29-2008

Even prior to my piercings, I never came from oral... I find I get clostest when they cant make eye contact though, whether they are under the covers, or beneath my computer desk, for some reason, making them unable to look at me helps a lot.