Help a Girl Get Off a Gay Man

So what's the best route? How can I ask a female maximize pleasure for my gay counterpart. He wants to try sex with a girl.. how do I go about bringing in pleasure for him? I'm not scared of fingers or toys in areas that he is used to using.* Give me some direction and some ideas on how this would work best for the both of us.


Thanks in advance to those who step out of the barrier and think with an open mind.




* I wont receive anal.

Oh. I misread your title and thought you wanted to quit a relationship. My wise ass response would have been

For you: A crowbar.

Just kidding. Good luck.

The obvious would be to start him off with a good BJ.

I know several gay guys who really like breast....try using them ; )

Hrm so like... tit fucking. Okay I can do that.



Should I like massage his prostate? I'm up for it.. doesn't scare me.

personally, I'd love both

But you wouldn't freak out if someone did that too you? the last guy wouldn't let me do that... maybe cause he wasn't prepped for it?

That would be my suggestion also. Then (for me anyway) there has to be a LOT of physical stuff, like lots of touching, rubbing, lots of kissing(if he's comfortable with that), and lots of foreplay. Then just go with the flow.

If all else fails, sit your computer in his view with a membership to englishlads.com

(I know they're all kinda twinky, but hot damn.)

I thought about that.. having gay porn on in the background for him.. I enjoy it too, so it's not a huge leap.

I'd recommend doing all kinds of soft, girly things. As suggested, use your breasts a lot. Be absolutely mesmerized with his cock - he'll be used to his partners being owners themselves, you'll have to show him what a great "vacation" it is having someone less familiar with the equipment handle it.

I dunno his style, but if he's more used to rougher sex, you'll want to be nice and soft and gentle. It may not necessarily be what he's used to or even prefers, but he's obviously interested in trying something new, so do whatever "new" things he wants to try. He's not travelling to a foreign country just to eat a cheeseburger he knows and likes, he wants exotic and new.

Pussy is very exotic. Let him do pretty much whatever he wants with it. :)

yes, let him explore, so to say.

I have to agree with the last two as well. We're all different and I think different gay guys would be interested in different things. Personally, I'm not interested at all in receiving a blow job from a girl, but I am VERY interested in pussy. A bit less in boobs. So if it were me, at least, just give me a glimpse of your pussy and let me explore there and I'd be turned on. More than gay porn in the background, I'd like to have another guy there with us. But again, we're all different!

I think that's just plain great advice, no matter what guy you're banging.

Also, make it fun and playful. Be real into it. Let him know that you've really thought about how to make this fun for him, so if there's anything he needs he should just chime in. And try to remember it's his responsibility to make it enjoyable too.

I have to agree with this, too. Nothing like someone being mesmerized by your cock! The thought of a girl being fascinated and turned on by my dick is the biggest (so to speak) thing that would push me over the edge into trying it with her. The second is her letting me be mesmerized by her pussy.