02-28-2008
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#16 (permalink)
| | | i totaly agree with ''wellstrung''
i never had a father or any male's in my life, so i never saw a bellend till i started work at 15. when i go camping with my friend, we used to take his brothers lad with us, he has been going with us since he was 7, he is 16 now. and i made no to hide nudity, or morning erection's from him. and he never made any coment at all about it. why hide it from him, it is human nature. i wish i was not deprived of it, no one to talk to about things as you are growing up, no help and guidance about sex, erections, or anything. so don't be shy, just use your head and think.. | | | |
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02-28-2008
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#17 (permalink)
| | | Ok, my dad had the most amazing cock. Really weighty, a real schlong. Now the times I went to the gym showers with him are etched on my memory. A little boy staring up at his dad's cock, as water trickled down it. I expected all men to be as big as him, and was sorely disappointed when I actually stated experiencing cocks.
I saw my dad recently in the nude, and can I send out a warning? A lifetime of drinking does nothing for your cock!
But I've got one so it is more than ok :) | | | |
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02-29-2008
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#18 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by nydodgersfan I remember going camping with my friend and his dad when we were about 16 and being surprised by how comfortable my friend was with his dad about nudity, and thinking how different my life was. | How long did it take you to fell comfortable being naked around his dad and all? | | | |
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02-29-2008
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#19 (permalink)
| | | I don't see a problem with it, if both are comfortable with each other. | | | |
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02-29-2008
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#20 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by wellstrung I never saw a naked man until high school football when I was about 15. Looking back, I'm now 29, the traumatic shock and awkwardness that I regret experiencing could have been easily disarmed if there was some man around when I was young (like 5, 6, 7) that was casually naked around me. It's not being naked that is damaging or traumitic to a child it is the attitude the adult has about being seen naked that has the potential to damage. I think it is important for a child's body image/esteem to be handled by the "naked father" than by pornography or strangers.
P.S. It's just a penis. God made it. | Yeah a naked father will take care of it.... something perverted in the works there | | | |
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02-29-2008
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#21 (permalink)
| | | Right on Hippie Hollow Girl! Casual nudity was never a big deal around my house when growing up. I have considerably older siblings and shared a bedroom with my teen-aged brother when I was around 7-10 years old. We all used to skinny dip during those hot summer New England nights. All very healthy, normal, "these are just how our bodies look" kinds of stuff.
I do remember one sister's wedding when all of us "men" (I was 9 yo) in the wedding party changed in the same room. I was a little surprised by the size of some of the guys penises... just an eye opener for me ;- ) | | | |
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02-29-2008
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#22 (permalink)
| | | I too was one without a father figure, and chance to know at puberty that the changes like growth, erections and hair were normal. I went through a long period in my life where I was very uncomfortable with my body, and at times I still am. I think having the chance to see other guys like a father casually nude when I was a child may have made all the difference. | | | |
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02-29-2008
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#23 (permalink)
| | | BRRRRRR! I flip out whenver I see my mom or dad naked. I may be unhealthy for feeling that way but there it is. | | | |
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02-29-2008
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#24 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Supersized BRRRRRR! I flip out whenver I see my mom or dad naked. I may be unhealthy for feeling that way but there it is. | lol...not really unhealthy. it's just like thinking of your parents having sex.
ewww. haha..
and as the thread goes, my dad hasn't seen me naked since 10 or so years, and the same goes for me. wait. i've never seen my dad's penis. only his ass. | | | |
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02-29-2008
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#25 (permalink)
| | | I have no children of my own but I helped to raise my nieces and nephews.
when will we ever draw the line between being naked and having sex?
I have always hated clothes
when i was little they used to have to duct tape my diaper on.
my older cousin used to have to chase me after I tore off my diaper.
your born naked all the rest is drag.
and yes i saw my father and sister naked it was no big deal | | | |
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02-29-2008
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#26 (permalink)
| | | i have a very small dick. my mother kicked my little dicked father out when i was a baby, and i grew up exposed to all of her big cocked boyfriends ( yes, mom is a size queen ). it's a traumatic thing for a young boy or young man to have a parent figure walking around the house sporting a huge cock, or making fun of his puny little one. that was my experience. as a result, i've never been able to have a successful relationship with a woman, and have spent my life sucking cocks, especially nice, big ones. if you're nicely hung, and proud of that big, fat morning wood, show it off to your wife, not your son or your daughter. if your son grows to be smaller than you, you don't want to fuck up his head, like mine was. whether you're lucky enough to have a big cock, or unfortunate enough to have a little dick, you know what i'm talking about. kids are sensitive little creatures, and should be treated as such. i don't mean to sound preachy, but i think it's important. | | | |
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02-29-2008
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#27 (permalink)
| | | I remember nudity around my house being something normal in passing. I would see my mom in the morning topless sometimes, and i would see my dad. My brother once called for a clean towel from the shower and when i opened the door he was just standing there hanging hung and wet. I enjoyed them when i was young as learning things, and later as a different kind of learning thing via comparison. I think if you don't think about it, it's fine.. but i think it's probably ill-advised to try to negate any kind of physical sexuality. | | | |
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03-01-2008
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#28 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by camchain i totaly agree with ''wellstrung''
i never had a father or any male's in my life, so i never saw a bellend till i started work at 15. when i go camping with my friend, we used to take his brothers lad with us, he has been going with us since he was 7, he is 16 now. and i made no to hide nudity, or morning erection's from him. and he never made any coment at all about it. why hide it from him, it is human nature. i wish i was not deprived of it, no one to talk to about things as you are growing up, no help and guidance about sex, erections, or anything. so don't be shy, just use your head and think.. | It sounds like you set a good example for your friend and his lil bro. Did the kid feel more comfortable talking to you about his own changes as they began because of how open you were with and around him? | | | |
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03-01-2008
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#29 (permalink)
| | | Shame for the naked body is a creation of those that would like to legislate your thoughts. I've spent a lot of time in Europe on the beaches. I can tell you that there's nothing sexual about families spending time with other families nude on the beach. It's simply not an issue. Mind you, if Uncle Dave happens to be a pedophile, you might want to leave him at home. | | | |
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03-01-2008
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#30 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by bimale ...Mind you, if Uncle Dave happens to be a pedophile, you might want to leave him at home. | OK, that's not funny, but man, that was SO funny.  | | | |
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