Need some advice

onelastdance07 · 02-26-2008

ok some of you may know me from the chats but i have a problem. When it comes to woman in general i am 2 shy to talk to people. I wish i can get over it. I was always told in high school i had the greatest personality but i needed to loose a little bit of weight. Can anyone give me tips on how to be more confident in myself and how can i move on from my past. I appreciate the advice :)

SpeedoMike · 02-26-2008

I would suggest finding some outside activities, anything from church singles to square dancing to a hiking club... whatever.

It's so much easier to increase your self-confidence in a group rather that with one or two people. It's far less threatening. I know from experience.

If you still consider your weight an issue. Work at losing a pound or two a week rather than deciding to lose 10 or 20.

njqt466 · 02-26-2008

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Originally Posted by SpeedoMike

Iwould suggest finding some outside activities, anything from church singles to square dancing to a hiking club... whatever.

It's so much easier to increase your self-confidence in a group rather that with one or two people. It's far less threatening. I know from experience.

If you still consider your weight an issue. Work at losing a pound or two a week rather than deciding to lose 10 or 20.

Excellent Advice! I would also add joining a bowling league. It doesn't require the physical endurance of hiking or coordination of square dancing.