All you international homosexual spys are also gourmet cooks
I am not a gourmet cook, though. I am not Gordon Ramsay. Haute cuisine is for obsessive compulsives.
Pffftt,
there are plenty of perfect, made to order men out there!
Why I bet you know a dozen, hung black men from upper middle-class backgrounds, who are college educated, have a great sense of humor, love classic rock and puppies.
Oh, yeah. If you want upper middle-class...hang out with the upper middle-class. Look for the straight black guys who are genuinely interested in you. Dating is a matter of demographics. Some men will not have everything you want. You will not have everything they want. But, that is the point--who does? But you aren't interested in black guys. You want well-hung white guys with your specs. 
See, I am more likely to meet a white guy that meets that criteria than a black guy.
I had pretty much already come to that conclusion.
Actually, you are more likely to meet Asian and Middle Eastern men that meets those criteria but you aren't dating those guys either. Boo-hoo, cry me a river, won't you?
While you are at it, come to the conclusion that you want a white guy.
======================== I didn't say you hated black guys. You aren't into them. You are the one who is wanting well-hung white guys. If that was all I wanted I could have been married 20 years ago. But there is more to a man than his dick.
But then you wouldn't have written in your original post...vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv
You asked "where are the well-hung white guys in Northwest Ga.?"
Of course you don't care! You are gay and live in the UK.
Hahaha. my mind is Mancrushfordshire, UK. But I live in Asheville, NC. I do care. I believe in karma. Not quid pro quo. If I help peeps find love, then love shall come my way.