Hey man.....I'm in the same boat with you. I'm 6'5 and around 280, and I often wonder that myself. How old are you? I have been told that when women (and men) get into their 30's, they tend to be less picky (for a lack of a better phrase) about how men look (not that youre ugly or anything, its just that they are more interested in personality, rather than looks alone). Women in their 20's are more apt to marry or be with someone who is beautiful, rather than be with someone who has any substance to them. (I have been told this many times by various women) Hope this helps some. See this post (
http://www.lpsg.org/70523-you-ll-mak...t-husband.html ) for some additional help... Its not quite what you've asked here but its along the same lines una