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Originally Posted by d2cit  Thanks everyone for the posts. I am almost definitely sure that it is all in my head. I get erections alot in my sleep, and at random times throughout the day, but as soon as I think about it it goes away. I used to be really self-concious about getting erections when I was a teenager, and I think I built this mental block that without me even intending to, stops me from getting erections when I want to.
So I am pritty sure that it is in my head. But what do I do about it? For the most part I am very in control of my mind. I regularly meditate and do yoga. Its just that this issues is sort of invisible to me, and so therefore I dont know how to resolve it. Ive talked about it to a few people but that didnt seem to help get it out of me. I have been trying to overcompensate my mental problem by filling my body with things that should make me horny, but I guess the mind always wins.
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Hey There fuller Im 27 and have had similar problems for me its self esteme but Im sure looking at your pic that that is not your case. Personaly I thin kyou just need to find someone you truely find attractive and let yourself go a little let yourself have fun and allow yourself to be sexual your allowed to have hardons and your allowed to be a sexual being hey try being sexual. Why not have a night on your own where all you do is work on keeping yourself hard for as long as possible. I would say you put way too much emphasis subconciously on hiding your hardons from people that your mind has started to stop giving you the mojo to produce them. try and retrain your subconcious into understanding you are allowed hardons anytime anywhere.
Hell be proud of them and show them off when you get them.
