i dont know what thats referring to

and as for the story, i dont think thats really gay at all, as long as you werent attracted to him as a man, i think that wanting to please another guy can be ok as long as you arent mentally/sexually attracted to him, and obviously you both had gf's...as to not wanting him to jack you, you should definetely give it a chance because when a guy does it, he knows what he is doing and does it well...at least in my experience

so, as long as there was no gay sex, i think youre good to go