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Like men but gay sex just turns me off. What can I do?

Originally Posted by BigPackage Hey. I've never had any sexual relationship with a man but it's getting more tempting. If I'm honest I'd love to experience a man kissing me and being in a sexual

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Old 01-09-2008   #16 (permalink)
hungshyman is offline

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Hey. I've never had any sexual relationship with a man but it's getting more tempting. If I'm honest I'd love to experience a man kissing me and being in a sexual situation but... the thought of licking a man's bum hole turns me right off. I mean we all know what comes out of there and putting my tongue in there, yuck I don't think I could do it. Obviously anal sex is quite dodgy with STD's and stuff so all that is really putting me off trying even though I fancy a lot of guys. I guess some people would say 'You don't have to do all that - just have oral sex' or something but come on I think most guys who would go to bed with you would expect a bit more than that. Any advice?
no man has licked my bum hole
 
Old 01-09-2008   #17 (permalink)
novice_btm is offline

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no man has licked my bum hole
But being 99% straight, I'm not sure you're the target audience either.

I've never rimmed a guy, but I have been rimmed a couple times. I don't really have much interest in ass myself, but sure am glad others like mine.
 
Old 01-09-2008   #18 (permalink)
OmnibusGuy is offline

Judging from the title of the topic you might not be gay, just curious?
 
Old 01-09-2008   #19 (permalink)
inside_man is offline

BigPackage-
Take it all slowly. With experience, you find out what appeals to you and what doesn't. You should also remember that preferences can change over time. When I first found out what rimming was (I had heard the word but had no clue what it referred to), I was horrified. Now giving and receiving a rimjob is definitely all on the menu. But that acceptance and desire came over time and with experience.
One thing I think is helpful is not to judge certain sexual acts just because they don't appeal to you-alot of people do this: 'getting fucked is nasty', 'rimming is gross'. Maybe these things don't appeal to you. Maybe they don't appeal to you today. I've been fortunate enough to have had alot of sexual experiences and now I have a good understanding of what I like and don't like. But if I had written a script before those experiences and had stuck to it, my sex life wouldn't be nearly as rich as it is today...and I have a fantastic sex life. I'm also hiv- and have managed to avoid major STDs. Those 2 goals are not mutually exclusive.
 
Old 01-10-2008   #20 (permalink)
majormadness is offline

I'm an advocate of the "try it once, then perhaps never again" philosophy. If penetration doesn't work out for you, you could use these handy ideas:
- Blowjobs are amazing
- You can always go Ancient Greek style and penetrate between the thighs
Hope I helped a little!
~ Major
 
Old 01-10-2008   #21 (permalink)
Malachi is offline

Have you considered looking into getting together with a Female to Male trans gender or transsexual? It might get you the masculine companionship that you're craving without the particular aspects of gay sex that are turning you off.

I've only met a couple of gay men in relationships with FTMs, but I have met across them.
 
Old 01-10-2008   #22 (permalink)
Damian Johnson is offline

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Agreed! I may be a pit, tit and crotch slut, but the thought of rimming just bums me out. That said, my ass is still virgin territory and being rimmed or fingered is a quick turnoff.
So you wouldnt rim my fit arse if I offered it up to you then Savage dude? And are you saying that im not allowed to put my pretty lips and cute tongue up against your fit bumhole?
 
Old 01-10-2008   #23 (permalink)
Primal_Savage is offline

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So you wouldnt rim my fit arse if I offered it up to you then Savage dude? And are you saying that im not allowed to put my pretty lips and cute tongue up against your fit bumhole?
Hey bud, there's a first time for everything. It's just that I'd rather we take each other to oral estacy with tit, pit, crotch and cock worship.
 
Old 01-10-2008   #24 (permalink)
seahorses is offline

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Originally Posted by BigPackage View Post
Hey. I've never had any sexual relationship with a man but it's getting more tempting. If I'm honest I'd love to experience a man kissing me and being in a sexual situation but... the thought of licking a man's bum hole turns me right off. I mean we all know what comes out of there and putting my tongue in there, yuck I don't think I could do it. Obviously anal sex is quite dodgy with STD's and stuff so all that is really putting me off trying even though I fancy a lot of guys. I guess some people would say 'You don't have to do all that - just have oral sex' or something but come on I think most guys who would go to bed with you would expect a bit more than that. Any advice?
What makes you think you’re the only person in the world with your views? You have the ideal opportunity with this site alone to find others that your share ideals and, if desired, link up with them. Why deny yourself the happiness you deserve? Go for it.
 
Old 01-10-2008   #25 (permalink)
Damian Johnson is offline

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Hey bud, there's a first time for everything. It's just that I'd rather we take each other to oral estacy with tit, pit, crotch and cock worship.
Dude! I fuckin love a bit of cock worship! Im breezing along to your temple right now! I wanna see the second cuming!!
 
Old 01-10-2008   #26 (permalink)
like2playwbd is offline

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Since when is knowing and respecting one's limits a bad thing?

For the record, I know several men who are oral-only. For much of my 20s, I was, too.
Yep me too. I have know a lot of guys that were oral only. But they also had a lot of other issues too.
 
Old 02-01-2008   #27 (permalink)
Inochoke is offline

Hey Man,

Let me tell you this. I Love men and being with them. The look, the feel, the taste. And as far as I am concerned, if shit enters the picture, party is over.

A considerate partner would make sure that he is clean as the driven snow so you could rest easy. But I really don't get all the hype about ass and things anal. I Love Sucking the biggest cock I can find and burying it in my face. "I No Choke so", I hate to have it taken away to stick up my ass.

Needless to say, You can make what's appealing to you "All that" and leave out what doesn't work.

Go for it dude.
 

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