Question for the packin' straight fellas...

How many times have you had a girl say 'stop' when you are trying to get your huge cock in her?

Do you try to convice her that it will be o.k. or do you just stop? Has your penis put the brakes on relationships that otherwise might have been wonderful?

When a woman saysw stop, you stop, if says no it's no.
No trying to convince her of anything, it's her body and only she decides what goes in and where.

well im 50% streight so i hope i can answer,

yeah girls have said this to me. the thing is go slow and lots of lube, athough making girls say it hurts because its so big, is a total turn on

yes, stop means just that. also the old 'leather' trick of safe words help too....

I agree. She says "stop;" you stop, frustrating as it may be. Sometimes it means that she needs a moment to get adjusted and try again, but it's up to her.

Has size been a problem for some of the women I've been with? Yes, and this happens more often than the exception. Has it ended a relationship? It might have. I'd like to think that my size isn't the end-all. We just might not have a lot in common or enjoy each other. While I think I'm a little more patient about women being unable to take it, I'm probably more quick to drop out of the relationship if the sexual compatibility just isn't there.

A girl I know had an experience with a guy when she was in college where the guy didn't really warn her and he shoved a 'freak of nature' cock into her pussy and it hurt her so bad that she made him stop. She tried another time with him a day later but it just hurt her so bad that she made him stop yet again. She said her pussy hurt for days and that it wasn't a good thing. The guy called her again but she didn't return his calls.

This occurs all of the time, especially if I've never been intimitate with her before. If she needs time to become more comfortable with my dick, then I definitely allow it. I'm a gent, and I have feelings, too.

I have never ended a relationship from sex alone. Contrary to popular belief, there are more things than a big dick to worry about. LOL

In a serious relationship, if my girl asks me to stop or go easier i accept it of course and try to be more gentle. I only had a problem once, when one of my ex's was really inexperienced and had to try many many times till she got used to my size...

How much time does it take and what exactly do you do to get her acclimated?

How much time does it take?

There's no fixed formula - it isn't a simple oral for 5minutes, finger her for 2 and stick it in...

Just let her get used to you, reassure her and she'll become used to the feel of you over time - and feel that she can explore her sexuality around you more openly. If it's something casual use your hands, focus on the rest of her and don't pressure her. Remember women are all different sizes and have had different boyfriends in the past.

Try to see her telling you to stop as a chance to better pleasure the rest of her - instead of something stopping your fun - and you'll have a lot more fun yourself, too;)

It all depends on her and what she needs. If it's hurting her, we may have to continue with foreplay until she becomes more wet, or postpone the session until she feels ready. Sometimes it's like having sex with a virgin. Other times I end up just eating her out if penetration is too overwhelming.

Have you ever had a girl just flat out say 'no way am I going to have sex with you' after seeing your unit?

I've had girls tell me they wouldn't/couldn't have sex with me, and I've had those that I was having sex with tell me to stop. Best thing to do, in my experience, has been to just let them take control and do what they want. Most of the girls that told me I wouldn't fit in them eventually expressed interest in wanting to try, and those that told me to stop while having sex usually make significant progress with how much they can accept during that very session. Patience is a virtue, right?

I've told guys that there was no way they'd fit and I was worried it would hurt, but eventually, a huge cock is such a tease that I can't hold back any longer and it goes in just fine.

I've been with a few women who have said that they wanted to be in control those first few times. No problem with that here. :)

Two women have got to the see-it-for-the-first-time stage and said "no way hoss".

Most are pleasantly surprised with what they find and either say nothing or ask me to go easy. I learned early on that I needed to be slow and gentle unless told otherwise. Good sex is not about proving how big you are by causing her as much pain as possible (unless she's into that and tells you that it's okay).

Of course, good foreplay helps things fit a little easier too. ;)