Straight dudes eyeing cocks

I think it entirely depends upon the context. Strangers in a lockeroom giving me a sideway glance are fine. To be expected. If one came up and started praising me on the spot, it'd be uncomfortable. If it was someone I knew, however, I'd take the compliment and probably say something smartass, as I'm prone to doing. I can't imagine a stranger coming up to me and saying anything, though. I'm intimidating in person

Yeah, women don't really base sexual attraction on looks (well, they do care if you're skinnier or shorter than they are because it makes them feel self-conscious about their own body, but that's usually it), so they aren't going to check you out much.

Straight men naturally look at a man's body as a status symbol; the size of his chest, arms and - yes - his penis determine whether or not he's an alpha male; to compare that guy to their self and see where they stand in the "tribe." I wouldn't go as far as to say it's a sexual thing, however.


Straight men can definitely notice if a guy has a good body, but they're probably going to feel a sense of inadequacy. So, they're usually not going to give out a compliment. If guys were in a locker-room/shower together and someone said "Wow, you have a great chest," everybody would most likely think he was gay and it would create a lot of negative energy between them.

Yeah more than women and gay guys!

My gym has open gang-like showers, steam room & dry sauna, and i get checked out by the str8 guys just as much as the gay ones. If you ask a str8 guy if they do it - they will deny it, but they do. all the time. you can be looking right at them in the eye, and their eyes go right down to my dick.

I'm curious how you know which a guy is.

well i do get cheked a lot. The amount increased when i switched to pouched underwear like ergowear (I swear American underwear was designed for a Ken doll). It's like guys have never seen a good bulge before..but Ilike bein cruised so I welcome it.

Yes, we do ...Dudes with small dicks usually don't comment, they pretend not to notice, or if they do, then they often give the strange comments. Would like if sexuality was less taboo then it is...

Actually,
The context for that famous Nip/Tuck shower scene with McMahon and Lopez is intentionally ambiguous and is sexually charged with homo-eroticism on both ends.

yeah it happens, im sure most men are always curious as to how they measure up.

I'm not good at spotting people staring at my dick. But let me tell you, when I do see someone looking at my dick it always a girl, and it feels so good.

I've had straight friends openly check out my dick and compliment me. Its flattering, and I dont read anything into it aside from the knee jerk reaction of the moment. Some women check out tits...it doesnt bother me when guys check out dicks.

Well, let's see...the guys that I see working out with their girlfriends, the guys I see lifting with their buds talking about their girlfriends, and the ones wearing a wedding ring would normally fall into the "str8" column. The guys with the waxed eyebrows, feminine "swish" when they walk, and the ones that eye me up and down like they are starving and I am a juicy rib-eye steak would fall into the "gay" column. I am not saying that this formula is 100%, but it works for me the majority of the time. Any questions?

Yup. We check out and compare.

Yep, this image comes from an observational study of straight men and women, tracking eyeball movements and the duration of a glance at a photo. Straight men do indeed examine other guys' crotches to compare.