A)Use the search function is quite fair--it is there for a reason. If after using it, the poster truly cannot find anything on the subject, then they should say so (as you have).
B)No, I will not 'lighten up'--this is a matter which has been discussed ad infinitum and as novice_btm indicated it became extremely heated and drove folks away. There were many insensitive comments made at the times--not just ignorant. Ignorance can be tolerated, if a person is genuinely interested in learning. Insensitivity, especially when put forth with but one goal; that being, to rile, provoke and create an air of tension and hatred, is not to be tolerated.

Further, I looked into the topic starters previous posts for a reason--not to police him; but to see if I could get a better handle on who he is--where are his thoughts in general. Is he a sensitive sort or some lout who has a history of baiting people. I suppose since I am not one of the persons here with the 'favored' status, I have erred to an egregious extent. I must remember that only the la-di-das are allowed to question anyone.(and do not even try to deny that there is a system of favoritism here)