I don't think it means he's going to marry you in 30 days or less. I think the book is trying to keep you from wasting more thana month on someone who will never marry you. I think it means how to tell in fewer than 30 days if the man is ever going to want you for a wife.
I agree with Naughty- there is a difference between dating and courting. Think of courting as dating with the intention of confirming for yourself that you've found a real match for yourself.
Frankly, if a man isn't trying to picture me as the mother of his children inside of a month, I know we're just having temporary fun. In a month, we've spent lots of time together. If he hasn't even begun asking himself if I could some day be his wife, he's never going to ask himself. He already knows the answer is no. This does not have to mean the end of hanging out together, or even the end of sex if the sex is good. It just means we should both be aware that the relationship has met its potential.
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Originally Posted by SereneBlue  |
It sounds a lot like my friend's Mixed bag of Nuts philosophy. And yes, Cindy's hilarious to watch.
