locker room advice!!

It happens man. When it does you've just gotta grin and bear it. haha

A shot of cold water always brought back "limpness" in a hurry for me.

next time im at the gym im gona go completly naked in locker room and not try to hide anything but not be to obvious what ever happens happens , tghanks for your inout Swimming Lad i was wondering as you are an athlete can you tell me of any of these locker room experiences

thanks again everyone

iv just joined this site and i think it is great, this thread is just one example of many, show what good advice young men can get from here, its fantastic

Exwhysee said it well.

If you're just finished working out, you've got the blood flowing anyway. It's going to happen. I just finished my college years in the dorm and community showers. Boners happen. If you act like nothing is wrong, and move on with life, it's no big deal. They will check it out, but once they do, they'll move on with life too. Be ready with a remark to the creepy guy who talks to you about it, but just act with confidence and do what you came to do, and you'll be fine.

If it is that big of a problem, shower at home.

A while back I was in my gym...returning from the shower. I wasn't fully hard, but halfway there and holding it down with one hand. At my locker, there were two older black men getting dressed in front of the door I was using, and I had to excuse myself to get to my door. I got up to one guy, and said "Sorry", (meaning sorry to bother you to get to my locker). He took a look down at my half-hard dick and looked over at his friend said "Dont apologize, when you are our age you will take all of those you can get!"

He nodded down to my dick and his friend started to chuckle. I pointed at my locker to show I has trying to get through, grabbed my stuff and found an empty bench to get dressed. The attention only got my dick harder, and I think by the time I got pants on it was fully engaged from being so self conscious from the attention. It was all in good humor and they certainly werent being sexual or creep...like I said earlier, sometimes a boner is just - a boner. It happens to us all.

thanks, ill be at the gym after christmas, ill keep yousposted :)

Last time I checked we all have the same equipment down there. Two balls and cock. Sometimes it just likes to say hello. It is like a mobile ringing at the worst time. You didn't have control over when someone will call you just like sometimes we don't have control over cock when it comes ringing. Don't apologize just ignore it and it should go away.

It happened to a friend of mine in school once. He was mortified at the time and got nicknamed "Woody" as a result of it. 10 years later, he now thinks it was funny.

Some other tips for making things go "back down" if the situation "arises"

1. Take an ice cold shower;
2. Mentally visualize what your mom would look like naked;
3. Don't look at anyone else in the locker room and look down at your own feet in the shower. (This has been most helpful for me).

You are definitely NOT the only one it happens to... And when I see dudes getting wood in the locker room, I think it's hot. If it really makes you that uncomfortable, just step into a stall and have a wank before you get naked in front of other guys. It should cut down the random boners.

sex 101

i luv your pics
dont worry about erections in the gym they all get them
where are you based?
england?


David

forget that
i just looked again at your profile
it is ieland
do u have any more pics
it is difficult to gage the real size

David

had it happen to me and seen it happen completely normal

Re: Not yet another stiffie?

Don't cover up in normal nudity places, as your apparent insecurity, I think, could invite teasing or make it more conspicuous.

I suspect that semi-erections are more common than people think, as often people don't even care or notice so much what the other guy is doing, well unless they are looking for perversion? And sometimes erections may be a bit too brief to be even all that much noticed.

How to keep soft? Just mentally suppress it, and go about one's normal business, and leave the nice hot water running in the shower even if getting a hard-on, but don't linger any longer than usual, and if it gets hard anyway, penises getting hard is a "fact of life." It's what they were made to do. At least be glad you don't need some Viagra or unnatural medical aid just to get it up.

I would think it's not a big deal. I would look briefly, but I would want him to feel comfortable. It's not a big deal. It happens.