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Originally Posted by gushiggins Sugar,
Am curious -- does this post supercede your earlier posts looking for same in the DC area?
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Kent Island won't work for me anymore either. I think it would be to easy to get found out. People get a feeling and can find out whatever they want. I don't know what I will do since I recently jumped into a relationship with someone who is very giving and kind .I think he will turn nasty if I decide that I want sex with someone else.
He is helping me out since I am having serious problems from an injury from an auto accident. He drives a really long way to help me with my medical care and is really awesome but I still really don't want monogamy with him. We don't live together and he does things for me but it's not like I have him paying my bills or asking him for money. I have my dignity and I am not helpless. He is just a wonderful person to be around but I am not so sure about the sex situation yet. I am actually pretty sure what I like and what just will not work.
I have passed up extremely wealthy men because the sex was lousy. Material things will not feel as good as a hung guy with amazing stamina.
I'm still too young to settle down with one partner who isn't sexually my type. He is trying to loose weight. It seems bad but I have heard many men say that they aren't happy with their mate sexually but they love her and would never leave.
I somehow forgot about the sex issue since I have been on a lot of pain medicine. I cannot stand to be touched because of pain but I have known my sp for a long time and he knows how to keep from hurting me. I don't really want to have sex with anyone but my consort but he doesn't love me and we only meet for sex since we broke up a year ago.
I really don't understand what the whole patriarchal ownership is about. It seems like men expect to own your sex life. I mean as long as you don't get a disease and don't neglect your primary relationship I think it's ok to supplement your sex life.. How could one person make you happy in bed forever.
I would not be able to have to be someone's sexual servant in trade for the relationship and love (and even the bike,boat gifts and great kids of his and his friends) then I can't go and get mine now and then.
I have been in relationships that were perfect except for the sex before but this guy is a really great guy and I can't dismiss him for that. I will have to be careful how I handle this situation. I think it isn't fair to him or me to let him invest his time and money when I can't realistically only be with him. I think he will freak out and want to retaliate if I let the relationship go on this way. It has been only a a little over two weeks and I let things go way to fast.
Vicodin makes you way to friendly and say things you don't mean when you are feeling better and not taking them. Now I see why I had to sign papers from the doc that say not to make changes or sign any legal documents while on this medication.
It is hard to give up such an awesome sexual experience with my hung man with amazing stamina.
It is just hard for me right now because I cleaned out my life's saving recovering from a spinal injury. I had five months that I couldn't work at all and I had to pay an assistant to do every thing for me for two years. . Now someone is making things easier for me and I have other people to think about (my kids). I am actually 37 with older kids and my pics are very recent.( not old or fake)
I would end up sexually frustrated anyway when I get older and less attractive so I have to think about the future and what is really important in my life.
I might just look at large penises and cyber like a lot of people on here and learn to be happy with that. I had two powerful orgasms from a dream since coming on this site.
I think I would start to resent my sexual frustrations and end up unhappy no matter how great he is.
Maybe I am not ready to settle.