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When are you considered Bi-Racial or half Black?

I dont think there's such a thing as half-black,,, my son is black despite being born off an interracial relationship.

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Old 11-19-2007   #16 (permalink)
Tru_african is offline

I dont think there's such a thing as half-black,,, my son is black despite being born off an interracial relationship.
 
Old 11-20-2007   #17 (permalink)
~quicksilver~ is offline

You know what, in this day and age it really shouldn't matter. And for most people my age (25) it really doesn't as we are so used to and exposed to different races, cultures and religions than we ever were before. I come from an interracial marriage. I am exactly half black/half white. I tend not to classify myself as anything other than "me". I also spend a lot of time ticking the "other" box on forms. I will say for the most part I identify with and am more in touch with my black culture and heritage. This is because I was brought up with my Mum's family, although my Dad was around he was from abroad so had no close contact with my white relatives.

The thing maybe this man is trying to get at is perception (in a round about slightly offensive way!) I have been told that I do not particularly look "black" or act "black" etc. WHAT DOES BLACK LOOK LIKE OR ACT LIKE!!! I usually tell these people that obvioulsy their perceptions of "blackness" are very limited and perhaps if they were more familiar with black history and culture they would realise that people from black heritage come in all colours, shapes, sizes and socio-economic backrounds.

A lot of how mixed race people identify themselves has to do with where/how they grew up. It is hard if you don't easily fit into a box or pigeon hole and you have to make it up for yourself. Most of the time you will align yourself as a child with whoever will accept you. I would say that most people who are mixed race identify themselves as black (ie Halle Berry etc) because the black community usually doesn't have a problem in accepting or claiming a mixed race person as one of their own. I grew up in a black family environment in a predominantly black area. When I am with a bunch of black people there is no issue whatsover. They tend to accept me as I am and get on with it. When I am with a group of white people I get a lot of "Where are you from?" "What are you?" etc etc. Most of it is curiosity and unawareness but it proves what I am trying to say. A mixed race person may not be black, but will usually be accepted by the black community. I think with the white community it isn't about what you actually ARE, but what you LOOK like. Its not about whether you are black or not, it is about the fact that your are clearly not "white".
 
Old 11-20-2007   #18 (permalink)
senor rubirosa is offline

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Originally Posted by AquaEyes11010 View Post
Obviously, if someone is "half-black" and the black parent is very dark, that person will be darker than someone who is "half-black" whose black parent is paler. :-)
I wonder, AquaEyes, if this is really true.
Depends on how the dice falls.
The dark parent probably has genes that, in various combinations, could produce a relatively light-skinned child.
That said, you are a very interesting and conspicuously intelligent poster.
 
Old 11-20-2007   #19 (permalink)
sargon20 is offline

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Originally Posted by naughty View Post
Do not even get started with that. These color threads embarass me when I think about how messed up so many people of color are in terms of defining themselves by their exteriors. I would love for all to live MLK's dream but as long as there is one person Black white or other there to remind one of who THEY think you are we stay at square one.
Indeed. There is something about humans that they want desperately to be able to simply look at something rather than think about something and come to all kind of conclusions quickly.
 
Old 11-20-2007   #20 (permalink)
Osiris is offline

It's this type of thread the proves the point that racism is alive and well in the world. I am a Black American, PERIOD! It pisses me off when people try to pidgeon whole black people into the "what box do you check on a job app" thing. And it pisses me off twice as much when black people do it. The sooner everyone accepts that we all bleed the same red blood, eat the same food, and breath the same air, the better off humanity will be.

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Do not even get started with that. These color threads embarass me when I think about how messed up so many people of color are in terms of defining themselves by their exteriors. I would love for all to live MLK's dream but as long as there is one person Black white or other there to remind one of who THEY think you are we stay at square one.
I couldn't agree with you more. The more these posts go on, everyone looks like they have IQs equal to or lower than a bowl of bean dip. No one ever "wins" these debates because no one is going to share the same point of reference. So why even try to ask for explanation? You aren't going to accept it in any form because the belief is already formed. As has been said before, it is dependant on who is doing the labeling.

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Get with the program , one race , Human
Thank you Patrick. Unfortunately you are a rarity on this issue.
 

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