I thought all girls liked big cocks-least thats what TV says...

For God's sake, man, find a woman with a cunt that fits your big dick and who can appreciate what you've got by coming on that big thing over and over. You need a woman who will shack up with you for a day or a weekend and fuck you silly. They are out there waiting. Life is short. Carry on.

You are so right about this, but when it come to penetration time, the fascination sometimes turns to painful horror.

I have a friend who had this girl massively jocking him. It was evident he was hung. Limp the guy had a pretty massive bulge. Well when it came to foreplay and touching, it was all good, but when he penetrated, she was in pain and did not enjoy it at all.

A large cock takes some getting used to by a woman who has never truly experienced it. Also some hung guys are a bit to vigorous during sex. Guys need to slow it down on the penetration and ease into deeper penetraion. If that can be managed, you might create a true size queen.

I suspect that because, you were each others,"first",is why you stay together, and put up with a situation thats not so great. I see it a lot!
Although you say everything is great except for the sex,you mention shes uptight if you bring up that subject.Perhaps you should actually spend some time apart, and both of you go exploring.Life is too short to be stuck in a sexless,and sometimes loveless relationship. Maybe you'll be happier with someone who can fulfil all your requirements,and she will too.
My guess is, that either one of you thinks, this is a secure relationship,but if she needs to feel that she has to be forced to have sex,{and I'm catholic,by the way} why would you put up with that.Daily hand jobs? uhuh,nope,I'd rather fuck,everyday!
cigarbabe

Do you want to have this problem every day for the rest of your life?

You can love someone, and they can love you, but that doesn't mean that you guys are LOVERS.

Do yourself (and your future kids) a big favor, and get out of there, FAST.

So dig down deep and find the moral strength to endure pain for a few weeks/months. You'll be a lot happier in the long run.

My ex is just like her... your girl has SERIOUS issues with men. She might have been abused by a family member in her past... she might have been beaten by men before... she might have been through BOTH (too common...). She might be just sick of you as a person too... my anger and temper made my ex start to HATE the thought of sex with me... including any positive thoughts about my penis.

She could be a secret lesbian too... not out of the closet yet...

YOU NEED TO DUMP HER AND GET A GIRLFRIEND THAT IS NORMAL!!!!

[quote=Brock Rockington;1091293]Im afraid that if I leave her 1. Ill never meet anyone who meets my other needs like she does

You're staying with her just because you're afraid you can't do any better, that's never a reason to stay with someone. It sounds like you're mismatched and that sex is so important to you that's an issue (that's not a judgement some people find sex more important than others), it won't go away with time, the longer a problem carries on the bigger it becomes.

If you have had these discussions with her before...and you were as calm and loving as you think you can be...and it still doesn't result in a solution? Then your relationship is not as good as it should be. What happens when another serious issue comes up? Like what religion in which to raise the kids? Or how to spend household money? Or where to live? The list, of course, goes on. If you are being honest with us - and yourself- you have to re-examine this relationship.

As an aside...and I am a man and talking out of my asshole on this, of course...but she SHOULD be able to accomodate you...if she wanted to and worked at it. A sex therapist might be able to help...but she must WANT to.

That cuts both ways nicenycdick, he could accommodate her too.

Yes it does. There's a size at which it becomes painful or uncomfortable even though it's not the same for every woman. Some women have a point at which it's too small, others too large, and some none of the above. I'm more comfortable with 6" more than 9" because of the placement of my cervix.

I'm not that fascinated by size, to be honest. I'm more interested in the person it's attached to. I'd rather suck a smaller cock than a larger one because it's a hell of a lot easier to give head well to someone that's smaller. Mouths are only so big, you know?

Every woman is different, and some women don't even know what they want sexually or have any idea of their own or others' anatomy.

Yes, SP...that's why I said I was talking out of my asshole. There is, of course, more than one viewpoint here: his and hers. And I am always at risk when I try to account for (let alone understand!) the "her" position! But, if he can not accomodate her (by being satisfied by handjobs) and she can't accomodate him, then the relationship is doomed to fail. Not that either side is at fault...you can only accept what you can accept. But it is only communication and discussion that will reveal what accomodation can be made...or not made. And if it can't work...well, it just can't work.

My wife could care less about my cock size or someone elses for that matter. She could care less how it looks when I come out of the shower, or when I'm getting changed, etc. Where, other women like to see their mans' tool out in the open.

As long as it does the JOB, it's fine with her. I do need more physical attention than I get from my wife, but I don't force her to jerk me off everyday, I take care of that myself, as needed.

So, as long as I know the rules, I can live with it, and that's what I do, live with it. There are far more important things in life to worry about. Mortgage payments, sending the kids through college, etc etc etc. My wife oodling over my penis is far from the top of the list.

Brock Rockington, this situation is not going to change. You need to dump her and find a woman who can not only handle your size but appreciate you.

[quote=nicenycdick;1091258]I have spent 25 years with a woman who really doesn't like my cock...it is too big for her, Why on earth have you stayed for 25 years?!? I know sex isn't everything but it is an inegral component in any serious relationship. although I have never really thought that I was that big. For that reason, I always feel that I am imposing upon her when I want to make love. I am not comfortable insisting that my partner please me if she doesn't want to...so our sex life for years has been disappointing, to say the least. I love her and would do anything for her. But I can't help thinking that I should have found someone all those years ago that could appreciate what I had...or, at least, cared enough about it to make it work. My advice is...unless this woman satisfies ALL other needs in your life, look again at the relationship. A lifetime of unsatisfactory sex is NOT a good thing.[/quote

I would need to find someone else who can match my sexual needs and desires. I have in the past- my ex (this is gonna sound bad, was only four inches) never wanted to have sex, at least not as often as me- I found myself masterbating sometimes 9 times a day...and after 7 years I was out of there. I needed more. We are human beings but when it comes to sex I believe it brings out the animals in us. Don't keep the creature caged- go and explore the world! There are so many women out there that can fit all your needs and desires and want to ride you like a rodeo star with no saddle. Believe me when I say you dont want to look back four more years from now and say "i should've or could've".

Good luck!

Try A Little Tenderness

I'm in a similar relationship, and I know how you feel. I don't want to break up with the girl I love and risk never meeting someone like that again, but on the other hand I know it would be basically masochistic to willingly continue living in the sexless confines of what was once a great relationship. I hope you can have bigger balls than I do, and (gently) end the relationship before it's too late!