Would You Have Sex With A Married Person?

i have had sex with about 25 or so married women some of the times their husbands would watch.

I did last night.

If I was initiating things and there were children involved and it was a happy stable marriage, I probably would not.

Most of the married women I have slept with have not had children and were either in loveless/sexless marriages or in various stages of divorce/legal separation.

If I wasn't hurting anyone.

I am married and hope that someone would do me!!! :O

I agree.

Also, as a man, I feel it necessary to carry myself with dignity and self-respect. Having sex with married people would preclude that.

However, legally separated people (not just living apart) are "available".

The only way I would is in the context of a swingers club/party where I knew it was ok (I have started to get into this a bit, out of curiosity and, well, lack of sex! ), or if he's without any doubt legally separated (this has happened before too although we didn't actually have sex. I was too afraid of getting pregnant at the time - it was before I got "fixed"...)

I might also be in the unfortunate situation of being with someone not knowing that he was married. I hope that doesn't happen, but it sometimes does. One guy did come on to me once and I didn't go for it (something about him turned me off - besides I thought he was too old for me), then later I found out that he was married, and was very glad I didn't!

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Originally Posted by naughty Not! I wouldnt want anyone doing that to me, So I wouldnt want to do it to anyone else.

I'm with you Naughty. I'm not just shocked but sorry to see how the poll is going on this topic.

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Originally Posted by IknowKK I am married and hope that someone would do me!!! :O

Why? What's wrong with your husband?

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Originally Posted by Swimming Lad If I wasn't hurting anyone.

In my experience that's pretty much impossible.

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Originally Posted by horribleperson i have had sex with about 25 or so married women some of the times their husbands would watch.[/quote

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Originally Posted by horribleperson ] Sorry don't, get the cuckold thing at all.

Bullshit! I have a conscience.

Met my wife for the first time in 1972, she was in the High Sierras with her boyfriend who she later married. In 1974 she came back to the mountains and we met again, we clicked on every level and made love the next morning. Here is the difference: her husband went back to being a dope fiend and she wanted a divorce. And we were in love.

I have done for 6 years with her husbands knowledge (he sometimes watches). Also had others with or without their hubbies consent. Its just sex!!

I'm not sure if straight marriages do, but I think gay "marriages" run the gamut from total mongamy to total openess, and every variety in between. My "husband" and I have been together 27 years and are totally commited to each other's well being and are in love with each other. We have found that it's OK if each of us has an occaisional "dalliance" outside of the marriage bed. No jealousy, just tons of trust.

No. Done that. As far as I'm concerned, go fuck your wife who gets all of your cash. If you want to fuck around, why get fucking married?????

Can't stand married men and their balderdash. They always want to fuck you for free. Too many single guys for that crap.

I was in bed with my (soon) first wife when the bailiff knocked on the door with her divorce papers. I found it rather arousing, I am a little ashamed to admit.

That said, she was married to a dork whom she grasped at when young and confused. Did I feel bad cuckholding him? Hmmm.... Frankly, no. My beloved needed me emotionally, and I actually helped keep her sane, she said.

She was one of teh few women who REALLY turned me on sexually, and we truly loved each other with passion and intimacy. We both needed to feel safe in someone else's arms. It wasn't just sex; yes, it was love. And love is the higher moral purpose we served.

An affair, no way. A jerk off session in the steam room...yes...just getting off..not about love

That is my sentiment now. If I wanted to "fuck around", why would I have married my wife? As much as i would love to help my friend IknowKK out as I think she is a sexy woman, I would never, nor could I ever, do that to my wife.

There was a time my morals were below what they are now and I am not proud of it. I know where I stand now and my wife has said it before,"If you sleep with someone else, make sure it's right because you won't come back here."

I know where my bliss lies and it is with my wife and family.