Penis envy/jealousy

I'm average between the legs, but I've got some other great attributes and I have my fans and so, I can't be jealous, per se, but yeah, I'd love to have a bigger dick. But then, I've dated enough guys with big dicks to know that that won't solve world hunger, either.

I find it kind of weird however, that no one has come up with an aesthetically-pleasing, foolproof way for men to enlarge their penises - certainly it would seem no time was wasted on figuring out ways to enlarge women's breasts. Comments anyone?

Jennuine, as men, we're each as individual as our endowment. I've said this before, a number of times in the LPSG. We do not all behave the same way around other men (i.e. gyms and lockerrooms).

I identify more with the shy, quiet type fella and would just as soon NOT get too much attention from on-lookers....I don't deliberately "flaunt my wares."

(even though quietly I suppose all of us guys here like SOME admiration )

I should know by now, this far along in life, that I will never get along with everyone. But I would surely hate for my "dimensions" to spark jealousy, bitterness, or rivalry from my fellow brothers!

I would either ignore the anomosity or "downplay it" somehow. After all, my "size" doesn't necessarily define me. Those who know me realize that.


post script: 'Just read Jennuine's added note about her 18 year old friend and "what to tell him". I would reassure him that his value as a man and human being is not determined by his "size"...that other guys who joke and make fun ARE likely jealous. He has the opportunity of being a good example of a mature man by dismissing their comments and not yielding to their jesting and ridicule. While he certainly doesn't need an emotional complex about his body, he also should avoid becoming arrogant and "cocky" around others either! --Pun so noted.

It`s like this, some people never make it past the doorman.

lafever

lafever...

God Bless Alabama.

I suspect that most well hung men are like me in that they just assume that most men who are not hung harbor some feelings of envy. Like a lot of things, there is a range. I base this perspective on a lifetime of experiences, including some very open conversations on the subject. What is important, I believe, is the ability to be proud of one’s gift without being such a jerk about it that you derive pleasure from making others feel badly about themselves. The same sentiment applies to any circumstance where someone is advantaged by a desirable attribute, condition, or possession, when others are not as fortunate. (This position assumes, of course, there is wide scale agreement that large penises are more desirable than smaller ones and that those who disagree are among a small minority.)

I have always been far more likely to experience admiration or curiosity from others rather than hostility. Sometimes, regrettably, I do sense other men experiencing feelings of disappointment or even embarrassment over the size of their own endowments – even when their penises are respectably average or even large-average – but I do not normally perceive this negative energy directed at me per se. I can think of a few exceptions, but not very many.

Thanks to all for your comments and observations.