Why do guys not understand the words "Girls only"

There are people in the world who don't realize that even in sexual situations, boundaries are established. In my experience it has been men who label themselves as "closeted" who have the hardest time respecting boundaries as far as sexual advances or attention.

Personally, if I'd seen your vid or whatever and noticed the "girls only" tag, I'd respectfully decline from posting about how hot your cock is because I agree with you that unwanted attention can be a little upsetting when it becomes frequent.

Neh, not so. Not everybody.

I believe that anyone who posts a nudie pic or vid ought to roll with the punches, so I post my opposing viewpoint in every thread that berates "unwanted pm's."

Unfortunately I'd have to agree with that. If you post it, they're gonna respond. I say just sift through the unwanted to find what you do want. That's what I do with email or spam. I don't know jack about X-Tube, but I'd think it takes only seconds to delete unwanted responses. I know it does here on LPSG.

Men always think they're experts on women, and can voice a woman's opinion as well as they can.

Any time you ask for a woman's opinion online, you'll thusly still get a lot of replies from men, each thinking that they know what women are like so intimately as to be able to speak for them.

Maybe the men didn't see where it said "girls only". They were probably too busy looking for videos and masturbating that they weren't thinking straight. Maybe they post comments out of habit. These guys could care less how you feel. They just want to get off.

Or maybe your videos aren't sexy to women, but are to men?

If you're putting vids of you jerking off on web sites do you really think guys are going to take the time to check who you want comments from? Lighten up, a compliment is a compliment.

I think sometimes it comes down to human nature. The minute we are told "don't", then we have to do it. It's that "you aren't going to tell me what to do, no one has authority over me, I'll show you" rebelliousness.

Regardless, whether they leave a remark or not, they are still looking and will continue to do so.

Be gracious and accept the compliments. Someone finds you to be sexy and attractive.

you should know the answer since you are a guy. we are notoriously hard headed, so even if told not to, if we had wanted to in the first place then we probably still will.

I get pms with varying degrees of sexual context from guys and girls(probably guys), if something offends you then just delete it. maybe you need to be a little more laid back.

I think it has something to do with you being retarded.

I have alot of gay friends... I think its two things: just a lack of common courtesy..regardless of sex or orientation. Second, alot of gays I've met appear purposely irreverant towards anything that they may perceive as a some sort of segragation of their kind.... regardless of the manner. i believe that peopel asking for a specific gender response is appropriate, and nothing that suggest a specific segregation of gays. To not be interested in a gay man's repose is fine.. i don't think it diminishe's the gay's cause. it would be nice if people did respect those wishes.

Fast Forward... You're 79 years old and it won't work in front of your old scratched-up digital cam that has about an 8 1/2" layer of dust on it. In fact, it just won't work period. The old vids you made when you were younger are tired and everyone has seen them, men, women, ex gf's, the whole internet world of potential gf's that got away, and even your relatives who had a quick peek about 50 years ago. No one sends an email to say "please make more, you're so hot" in fact, no one even says take them off the net already because we want the newer 3-D SONY X-VRB 17000B Scent/Taste LifeVisionCam Wall-sized Ion-matrix versions of younger hotter men. In fact no one cares. You had your postings, you had your 15 1/2 minutes of fame, you had your rants. Now what do you do? Beauty is much more than skin deep my friend.

I forgot to add: The internet errodes accountability by its annonymous nature, and I understand your frustration over this fact. But as others have mentioned, it is better to understand and accept that lack of accountability here. You easily could drive yourself nuts and that in turn would affect the quality of your x-vids you are posting.

Listen, you twank. No one wants to convert you. OK? NIC's original statement is the statement which holds true. If you have your cock featured on the internet, you are going to get comments from every and all. Like it or not; lump it or leave it.

No one wants to convert you, so enough with that bugger-all tired line. There is a UNIVERSE of 100% certified Grade-A gay men to choose from. We have our own Mardi Gras in the U.S. for which you have to book rooms in New Orleans a year in advance. Get it? An entire freakin' city! And Gay Days in Orlando... HELLO! We have neither wish nor need to convert new recruits! We don't have enough bloody uniforms for all the cadets who show up all on their own.

Get the picture? Do I have to spell it out any better? Shall we send someone to hold your hand in class so perhaps you can get some O-grades?

Well put, a complement is a complement know matter who it comes from. Say thank you and move on. If he persists then just tell him that you are not attracted to men but are flattered by the attention and move on. Treat it as you would a woman you are not attracted to. After all is it really hurting you to read these comments know matter how explicit they are??