I just want to add to this that I don't want it to come off like I am being a prude or something. I do not care what grown adults do sexually god knows I am a freak., I just have a thing about kids being molested and put in adult situations. My best friend was molested by his step dad most of his life, there was never penetration just the dad coming in to his room at night and masturbating over him while he thought he was sleeping and weird stuff like that. He never really got over it and got into drugs and overdosed at the age of 21. He had all kinds of sexual hang ups. It just all stemmed back to that. So I am not implying anything unsavory is or was going on in this situation but I just think there has to be a firm line when it comes to adults and kids sexually.. Regardless if its a parent or not there just has to be a line that shouldn't be crossed. The smallest thing that happens when you are young can really effect your the rest of your life.