PMsing

DC_DEEP · 09-15-2007

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Originally Posted by Alex22

On the other hand, PMs are public [I think you meant private] , directed to someone and originated from someone specific. That makes it exactly the same as snail mail. I don't know the law term in english for this but it's a postal xyz (not crime, not offence, you will know the word), just as opening somebody else's mail.

You misunderstand what "private message" means. It does not mean top-secret. It simply means that you can send the message to an individual, without posting it publicly in a thread. It is sent privately, but once received, it is the property of the recipient, to do with as he sees fit. I don't know how the laws in Spain work, but in the US, it is illegal to intercept mail. Once received by the person to whom it is addressed, it is not illegal for that person to make it public.

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Originally Posted by patro78

You are completely puerile. You construct your profile so as reasonably (though not necessarily deliberately) to invite such messages, then ridicule the sender when you receive them. I think someone is in need of an ego-boost - if only at the expense of others.

You don't know her very well, and would be well-advised to know what you are talking about before you post.

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Originally Posted by patro78

Feminine vanity is so transparently boorish.

You don't know her very well, either.

Adam Bleytou · 09-15-2007

Having just read the entire thread, I just wanna add my two cents worth...

Instead of guys being offended by this thread, I think you should use it as a learning curve. You're hearing the opinions and views of the creatures you so desire to interact with and one quick read over the entire thread can teach you a lot.

I've recieved many of the types of PM's that are being exposed here and although I personally won't expose any, I wouldn't be offended if I saw any thoughtless PM I had written in here. It's like the blood rushes from the brain straight to the genitals of the guys that send the kinds of PM's I've read in here, instead of writing like a knuckle dragging neanderthal, use your brains and be astute if you want to progress with a lady you like. Saying you "have a big cock" is just not gonna to cut it with the more thoughtful and sensible sex.

Personally I don't see the appeal of cam sex or cybering what so ever and haven't sent a single PM out to anybody (only replies) so I can't put myself in the position of these guys, but there are certainly tips you can take on board from just listening to some of the ladies in this thread.

I'm aiming this at any guy that feels offended and mean no disrespect to any party with anything I have just said.

Beast9 · 09-15-2007

Well, I intended to send BurningVenus a PM, but I don't want her to post it here, so... in case anyone sees her, make sure you tell her that, in my humble opinion, she's the definition of the word "delicious".

She's one of the hottest ladies I've seen for a while and my good friend down there always salutes when I see her pics... that, by the way, are no longer available, which is a shame.

Anyway, there isn't one single woman in the world who doesn't like to know someone finds her attractive, so this thread is ridiculous.

Cheers

NOTE: I've sent PM to 3 ladies in this forum that I consider attractive. I didn't ask for cam/to/cam, I just stated what I thought of their looks. If you think that's wrong, sue me.

burns1de · 09-15-2007

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Originally Posted by Beast9

Well, I intended to send BurningVenus a PM, but I don't want her to post it here, so... in case anyone sees her, make sure you tell her that, in my humble opinion, she's the definition of the word "delicious".

She's one of the hottest ladies I've seen for a while and my good friend down there always salutes when I see her pics... that, by the way, are no longer available, which is a shame.

Errr, dude... Sorry to tell you this but... Well, you might as well just read this thread.

Think_Kink · 09-15-2007

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Originally Posted by burns1de

Errr, dude... Sorry to tell you this but... Well, you might as well just read this thread.

Haha thanks again for finding her out Burns.. that was awesome.

burns1de · 09-15-2007

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Originally Posted by Think_Kink

Haha thanks again for finding her out Burns.. that was awesome.

Awesome and dissapointing at once.

Osiris · 09-15-2007

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Originally Posted by burns1de

Awesome and dissapointing at once.

This is what makes you a good man. Noble and you have a heart man. Two rare and admirable traits friend.

Beast9 · 09-15-2007

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Originally Posted by burns1de

Errr, dude... Sorry to tell you this but... Well, you might as well just read this thread.

Oh...

DC_DEEP · 09-15-2007

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Originally Posted by Beast9

Well, I intended to send BurningVenus a PM, but I don't want her to post it here, so... in case anyone sees her, make sure you tell her that, in my humble opinion, she's the definition of the word "delicious".

The whole BurningVenus debacle notwithstanding, I've sent a whole shitload of PMs to both male and female members; it really would not bother me in the least to have any of them published. That's because I do not send anything trollish. A good rule of thumb is "if you wouldn't want it published, do not send it."

Back on the subject at hand, I've had 5 different guys on LPSG pester me with PMs. How do I stop them in their tracks? I just tell 'em "my cock is really only 6 inches." I've not yet had another PM from any of those 5. Did I lie to them? Maybe, maybe not. My point is that if they have no interest whatsoever in me except for my cock, they need to leave me alone and go buy a 15 inch dildo.

SpoiledPrincess · 09-15-2007

I don't think any of us mind pm's from people we either know a little of from the forums or from the chat room, but the pm's we receive from 'regulars' tend to have much more substance than 'wanna cam', they're usually in reference to something or just along the line of a nice general greeting. A friendly and personalised pm is very different to some generic 'compliment' from someone you've never encountered in any way. Even if the pm is from a total stranger as long as it's not of the 'i love older women what's your msn' I reply politely, but why would any of us feel the urge to reply to something we know has only been sent because a guy has seen naked photos of us or is trying his luck out with all the women on here in the hope one of us is going to feel impelled by his charming approach to drop her drawers on cam.

mindfawk · 09-16-2007

Here is one of mine!

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hey man, was just seein whats up? im 20 str8 - ks... wantin to know if you wanna talk bout our junk and whatnot. let me know dude... my yahoo is ***********.

Comment: Ok, for starters if you're "straight" why are you wanting to talk about our junk? I'm bi, I can admit that I'm bi, so do yourself a favor and either a) admit that you're bi, or b) send the above PM to a female user.

JennyS · 09-16-2007

I got one that's written in Spanish and I don't know what it means :p

What's "Mami", is that a nickname for cutie or something?

burns1de · 09-16-2007

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Originally Posted by JennyS

I got one that's written in Spanish and I don't know what it means :p

What's "Mami", is that a nickname for cutie or something?

Basically, it means that a spanish-speaking guy is trying to get you in his pants.

WildHoney · 09-16-2007

I have so many I dont even know where to begin...I get abusive and annoying full on PM's daily..i am begining to wonder if maybe they are by the same person just different accounts...I just hit delete and ignore.

x

Honey

Alex22 · 09-18-2007

Not only we've spoked before, you are the only person here with who I speak more or less regularly. Probably I should have mentioned this to you privately (ironically) and don't have all this mess here.

I agree people don't send messages wisely, but most of messages posted here are quite normal given the topic of the site. Or maybe some are very delicate. "Hey I'm looking to see huge cocks and maybe get a couple of those inside me, but don't send me a message like 'if you want to chat give me your IM' because that hurts"

Anyhow, it seems like I am very wrong, given the number of answers against, some of them quite more offensive than 'wanna cam'.

It's the weirdest administration of a forum I've ever seen in a bunch of years belonging to forums and administrating some too. But as I said, this is not a common site in any way.

Please all the people that now hate me or want to say 'fuck you loser' or other similar nice things, feel free to send me a PM, I'm not logging here that often and don't worry, I will not publish it ;)

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Originally Posted by Gillette

Alex, we've spoken before and I don't for a moment think that you would send out a message of this type to a person you didn't know. I'm sorry that this thread upsets you but I set it up so it would serve as a cautionary lesson to some of the men who might want to contact us but aren't sure of the best way to go about it. These aren't the way.

The PMs many of us get are the equvalent of a having a car slow down next to you on the street and having the occupant scream, "Hey, sexy, want to screw!" It is offensive when you think about it. I've set up this thread as a way for the members, both male and female, to vent by saying, "you'll never guess what someone yelled at me from their car today" but without giving out the license plate.

Yes, we can have an ignore feature to block users who bother us but we don't know to put them on our ignore list until after they have already bothered us. The PM feature can be disable but that means we don't get PMs from people we want to get them from either. It would be throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

The thread is basically to blow off steam and have a chuckle. I've specified no personal information because I want this to remain light hearted and not turn into a crucifiction of anyone.

That said I am going to post one PM with identifying information.
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Private Message: EgadsRecipients: XXXXX XXX XXXX
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Your pic came up in the random images gallery, and I just had to say "Wow".

Two questions.
Can you pick up peanuts with it?
Have you considered spelling Wales with an H ?
The best a man can get.
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See, I was once an asshole, too.

PMsing

Originally Posted by Alex22 On the other hand, PMs are public [I think you meant private] , directed to someone and originated from someone specific. That makes it exactly the same as snail mail. I