PMsing

Gillette · 09-13-2007

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Originally Posted by Alex22

I can't believe this thread is open and especially because it's open by a moderator and as a sticky!!!

If PMs are not allowed, why the site has them?

If someone doesn't want to receive PMs can't they disable it?

Can't you ignore users if they bother you?

Is it some kind of fun to air private messages or is it just a kind of publicly posting private mail which is illegal in many places?

I'm sorry to be so hard Gillette, but this is completely wrong. It's against all kind of netiquette and usually people that do this are banned from sites, not encouraged by moderators.

Even hiding the name of the sender, it's still very wrong.

(In case you think I'm offended because a PM I sent has been published, it's not the case, I only read first 3-4 posts and no pm sent by me has been published)

Alex, we've spoken before and I don't for a moment think that you would send out a message of this type to a person you didn't know. I'm sorry that this thread upsets you but I set it up so it would serve as a cautionary lesson to some of the men who might want to contact us but aren't sure of the best way to go about it. These aren't the way.

The PMs many of us get are the equvalent of a having a car slow down next to you on the street and having the occupant scream, "Hey, sexy, want to screw!" It is offensive when you think about it. I've set up this thread as a way for the members, both male and female, to vent by saying, "you'll never guess what someone yelled at me from their car today" but without giving out the license plate.

Yes, we can have an ignore feature to block users who bother us but we don't know to put them on our ignore list until after they have already bothered us. The PM feature can be disable but that means we don't get PMs from people we want to get them from either. It would be throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

The thread is basically to blow off steam and have a chuckle. I've specified no personal information because I want this to remain light hearted and not turn into a crucifiction of anyone.

That said I am going to post one PM with identifying information.
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Private Message: EgadsRecipients: XXXXX XXX XXXX
http://www.lpsg.org/images36/statusicon/post_old.gif 05-08-2006 Gillette
Moderator

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Gillette is http://www.lpsg.org/images36/statusicon/user_online.gif
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Nova Scotia
Age: 36
Gender: Female
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Posts: 3,316

Your pic came up in the random images gallery, and I just had to say "Wow".

Two questions.
Can you pick up peanuts with it?
Have you considered spelling Wales with an H ?
The best a man can get.
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See, I was once an asshole, too.

Think_Kink · 09-13-2007

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Originally Posted by Alex22

3 threads like this? 3 completely wrong threads that should have been deleted

I receive about 1000 spam messages per day (many about penis enlargement lol) but it's the price to pay to have email

If you are a women in a big cock site and want to have PM system, you should expect messages. Just ignore them, delete them, probably by the subject you can tell what's spam.

I insist, even if we are in a not very serious website, publicing private messages and/or conversations it's against the law in most places and totally unethical.

Bitch shut up.

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Originally Posted by JennyS

I got this...

When I made the mistake of writing back to say no thanks, I got this from the same guy...

Then there was this one...

saying "u" this and "u" that really sets the stage for that last bit of french there :p

This one was practically a novel...

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and this was the latest...

Ummmm who sent you that really long one.. report them... there is 6 other accounts linked to that one... unless it is from April-May time..

Think_Kink · 09-13-2007

Oh I love doing this... hahaa

title: gotta say

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i think ur hot,lol

Alright thanks for that

title: do you have intrest on cybersex via webcam?

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xxxhi..have interest?
TK - no thank you.
When you need me, just PM me..hehe..

ummm ok...

title: in toronto

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XX hey there. I love your new pics.
I know you are in Northern Ontario but do you ever get down to the Toronto area?
Think_Kink:
No... and I told you that awhile back
XX Perhaps if I went up there we could meet up!
Think_Kink:
no thanks
XX oh ok..sorry didn't mean to bother you..I mean meeting after we chatted etc...
Think_Kink
But I don't even know you, let alone have I talked you enough to want to meet you.
XX Hi There.
Yes of course. That makes sense. Would you like to trade msn's to chat some more?
Think_Kink
no
XX Hi there.

It would be great to chat a bit. However I realize I am probably being a bother. Would you like me to stop contacting you?

I told this guy 4 times on 4 seperate occasions no... does he listen? no..

An invitation

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XXX As a member of LPSG I want to invite you to my Yahoogroup. This group is for guys with big cocks only, that also women are invited to join :-).So please follow the link and feel free to join. I think you will have fun in there. Before you can join I will make a short camcheck. There are too many fakes, and I think it`s better for you and the group to do it in this way. I am Volker your moderator and will also make the mentioned camcheck. Thanks. Yahoo! Groups

Think_Kink
I already told you no, you stupid fuck. Take me off your goddamned list. I'mnot joining your stupid forum.

XXX thanks for answering. you have a very nice manner to say no. i hope you still have friends. take care.

Ohhh I'm so not going to start on this one again..

Quote:

XXXX i got my cam on with my 12" dick hard
TK um no
XXXX add me on msn or yahoo XXXXXXX
TK no pictures to prove that.. oh im not surprised.. as well i never cam.. so again no..
XXXX u dont have to cam just watch

Yorkie · 09-14-2007

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you wanna c2c on yahoo? i'm xxxxxx

I don't know why anyone expects to get a positive response from this.I get these from people with no posts,no photos,no gender...
Some of the usernames make me suspect they might be robots.

Not_Punny · 09-14-2007

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Originally Posted by Yorkie

I don't know why anyone expects to get a positive response from this.I get these from people with no posts,no photos,no gender...
Some of the usernames make me suspect they might be robots.

LOL robots who want to have sex.... hot steamy sex with lots of lube oil!!!

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I think I've figured "hey-babe" PMers out.

They aren't asking you for sex, they are HAVING sex with you. They're looking at your gallery, they're thinking whatever they're thinking, then they're typing a one-handed message.

Of course, with limited blood to the brain (and with all the typos and shortcuts inherent in one-handed typing), of COURSE the messages come out with a low IQ.

The messages don't bother me much -- I look at them as an amusing side affect of posting nudie pix. If I was truly offended, I'd take my photos down. Problem solved.

* now where did I put that camera... *

patro78 · 09-14-2007

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Originally Posted by No_Strings

They just keep coming for me! Not that I blame them - I mean, damn, look at my gallery.

You are completely puerile. You construct your profile so as reasonably (though not necessarily deliberately) to invite such messages, then ridicule the sender when you receive them. I think someone is in need of an ego-boost - if only at the expense of others.

patro78 · 09-14-2007

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Originally Posted by Gillette

I'm just going to go ahead and do this.

We all get foolish PMs asking us to cam, rate pics, etc. I figured I'd put up a sticky thread for the sole pupose of airing them. This thrread is just to share the inane nature of our hopeful suitors so I'd ask that you remove the screen name and replace identifiable info with XXX. Ensure that the link does NOT work or your post may be edited or deleted.

If it has become an issue of harassment please PM me with all PMs included.

Here's mine. (to be honest I was tickled, without pics I think most don't know I'm female)

hi cute i wanna meeting to u
i have a big dick its 22cm

plz add XXX.hotmail.com

Feminine vanity is so transparently boorish.

patro78 · 09-14-2007

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Originally Posted by Andro Man

Must be great being a woman on a big dick site, being so vastly outnumbered by males?Must make you feel real important?

Such a witheringly succinct response!

SpoiledPrincess · 09-14-2007

Have you got some sort of obsessive disorder Patro?

No_Strings · 09-14-2007

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Originally Posted by patro78

You are completely puerile. You construct your profile so as reasonably (though not necessarily deliberately) to invite such messages, then ridicule the sender when you receive them. I think someone is in need of an ego-boost - if only at the expense of others.

Maybe this thread may explain things to you.

The pictures in my gallery are of the woman I love. If you want to see pcitures of me, check out her gallery. Sometimes I will respond to a PM with an explanation, sometimes I will ignore it - ridicule isn't involved in either case.

Don't jump to conclusions.

novice_btm · 09-14-2007

I loved:

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I do only bottom me too.I want bigcock fuck us both are assess

mercurialbliss · 09-14-2007

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Originally Posted by patro78

You are completely puerile. You construct your profile so as reasonably (though not necessarily deliberately) to invite such messages, then ridicule the sender when you receive them. I think someone is in need of an ego-boost - if only at the expense of others.

Sore loser.

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Originally Posted by patro78

Feminine vanity is so transparently boorish.

Chump.

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Originally Posted by patro78

Such a witheringly succinct response!

Inflated egos are so transparently boorish.

JennyS · 09-14-2007

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I've read now all messages in this thread and besides the "piss my throat" one, none I found offensive (and if throat pissing was more common, not even that one). They may be too direct, cold, hopeless, etc. But they don't qualify to be offensive IMHO.

It's not that they're offensive (in the sense that someone sends a pic of a horse fucking a pig). It's that they're insulting. They're insulting from the standpoint that they run with the assumption that we're such a collection of cheap sluts that we'd fall all over ourselves to get some from a random stranger who doesn't even make the pretext of getting to know us. It's not just a request for cyber, with it is paired an assault on our character.

Not all men are like that. I've had some nice PMs from some other posters here as well. There are just some real creeps out there.

JennyS · 09-14-2007

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Feminine vanity is so transparently boorish.

I think she was pointing out the humor in someone referring to her as a cutie when she doesn't even have a picture posted. She could be the amazing sloth-human hybrid for all he knows. (as it was, in that case, that was a mass mailer. Lots of women got identical PMs).

Chuck Hena · 09-14-2007

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Originally Posted by Alex22

I receive about 1000 spam messages per day (many about penis enlargement lol) but it's the price to pay for surfing porn all day.

Fixed for accuracy.

PMsing

Originally Posted by Alex22 I can't believe this thread is open and especially because it's open by a moderator and as a sticky!!! If PMs are not allowed, why the site has them?