Is my chick lying?? Or am I crazy?

This is not true. A lot of women look at porn. NOT with the insatiable frequency of men, but any women who has her libido intact (and with access to videos/the internet) is going to watch some porn.

Many women , however, are embarrassed about porn, masturbation, etc. Unlike guys, they don't discuss it that much among themselves. And if she had a religious upbringing, she could feel REALLY bad about it.

Basically, you are embarrassing her and hurting her feelings. Worse, you are acting like a Nazi with all this interrogation and snooping (checking to see how often she downloaded what kind of porn).

She may or may not "need" to have a big dick, but what's wrong with looking at one? Do you look at porn with women who have bigger tits than your gf's tits? And are you going to dump your gf because her tits aren't as big?

I'll also bet you sometimes watch some crazy porn shit -- but does that mean you want to act it out?

You need to give your gf some space. You are driving a big wedge (no pun intended) between you and her with this interrogation and accusation.

And like an earlier poster said, you might want to see if you have some of your OWN insecurities.

I'm not trying to beat this to death, but how does your gf orgasm?

If she has difficulty orgasming vaginally, and if she dries up during penetration, she may think that there is something "wrong" with her that might be "fixed" by a big dick.

A bigger dick may or may not solve her "problem." (Some people ARE size queens. Some people aren't. I couldn't be a size queen even if I wanted to because I don't have the depth.)

But I can guarantee you that she's "free" to fantasize about what turns her on when you're eating her = she gets super-wet. And when you're fucking her, she is busy interacting with you and isn't able to get lost in her private, fantasy world.

I'd explore her fantasies (in a FUN way). Maybe take her to a "toy" store and say to her -- "it's all yours, baby -- what would you like to try?"

Wow, another post from the dark ages. I guess all of the porn-watching women on here are really men then? And that would make you *gasp* gay, for talking to them! Sounds pretty immoral and wrong to me

Back to the topic though - If your girlfriend was a size queen, she would be fucking a man with a big penis. You, on the other hand have a slightly above average penis. She is fucking you, so she is not a size queen. QED.

I'm sure she just watches porn to get off, and probably does like looking at the big dicks. Denying it is her way of trying to reassure you that she isn't interested in a big dick for anything else and that you are more than adequate. Don't worry, and talk to her about the other problems in your sex life.

I think the hotmilf is on to something. Find out what gets her going, maybe try a toy.

This is the most ridiculous thing I've read in ages!



Block, it sounds like YOU have the hang-up about your cock, not your girlfriend.

All you have to go on is what she tells you. Why not, oh I don't know, believe her and just go about the rest of your day?

I have a fetish for very petite girls, and when my wife and I started dating she was definitely petite. Now she is much larger, not exactly fat, but a court of her peers could convict her of being "big boned" to say the least. Anyway, I am constantly searching the internet for "skinny, tiny, petite, etc" women, and I don't know whether or not my wife keeps tabs on my surfing activities, but I constantly bug her about hitting the gym, doing some running, and she gets the third degree when she eats like a pig.

But in the end it is strictly for sexual gratification, and the honest truth is that I am with her because she is rich, (LOL NO JUST KIDDING!!!) I mean because she is a great wife and a great mother. She is so good to me, and best of all she is one of those extremely rare girls that are actually faithful and not somebody you have to watch like a hawk when it comes to cheating. Instead I can focus my energy on more important things like being a good dad and husband.

Maybe its possible that she really likes to look at huge cocks, and it may even be possible that she enjoyed a huge cock or two in her past, and that she is with YOU because she thinks you would make a good LIFE LONG PARTNER, and not just an annonymous person that is attached to a monster slab of meat with which she can get her rocks off occasionally. Maybe you have the qualities that she thinks will make for a good FATHER? If this is true you could be blowing it.