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When you look down to your penis...

Yea, looking down gives me the idea that it's small. In the mirror, not so much. And RAWR to the mirror pic. :3

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Old 09-02-2007   #16 (permalink)
SyddyKitty is offline

Yea, looking down gives me the idea that it's small. In the mirror, not so much. And RAWR to the mirror pic. :3
 
Old 09-02-2007   #17 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by LemacST View Post
Do you see it being as big (or small) as others do?

When I look down, I see a small penis. When I look in the mirror though, especially a side view, I see a decent sized penis..
So what are you going to do about it?

Are you just looking for confirmation that other guys have issues about their perceived vs real penis sizes?

We get what we get and unless you want to spend the rest of your life always feeling that you don't measure up, I suggest you find a way of coming to terms with this issue. There's always someone more attractive, with a bigger dick, a better personality, etc, etc, ad nauseum.

Women come up to you, that's great! Certainly you've realized that dick size isn't the most important issue when it comes to having great sex?!?!

Once again, find a way to accept who you are, pointless ruminations about how your penis looks to your naked eye, with contacts on, with glasses on, from the top, from the side, in a convex mirror in a concave mirror, are going to do nothing to change what you have.

You've got a great body, lots of big dicked guys don't. Enjoy and USE what you have, don't always wish for something else.
 
Old 09-02-2007   #18 (permalink)
jason_els is offline

I can see what LemacST is saying. In those gallery shots you have a ridge of fat right where the pubic fat pad is. That ridge is in the way of your line of vision when you look down and so obscures a bit of the penis. You probably have a more prominent pubic fat pad.

Two things you can do. One is get pubic liposuction to suck it all out (what little there is) since the pubic fat pad contains privileged fat that the body is programmed to keep there. For someone as lean as you, you'd probably have to go Auschwitz thin to force your body to lose enough fat from that area to make a difference. The other thing is to convince yourself that what you're seeing is an optical illusion and go buy hella lot more mirrors .
 
Old 09-03-2007   #19 (permalink)
wants2bebigger is offline

i see mine as big, but i wouldnt mind more.
 
Old 09-03-2007   #20 (permalink)
rimmer9 is offline

I always see a smaller penis than anyone looking at me thats why it's always a shock when it creates such a fuss.
 
Old 09-03-2007   #21 (permalink)
jason_els is offline

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Originally Posted by rimmer9 View Post
I always see a smaller penis than anyone looking at me thats why it's always a shock when it creates such a fuss.
And we can see why!
 
Old 09-03-2007   #22 (permalink)
Jovial is offline

When you are sitting the skin bunches up on your stomach so it seems fatter. That's normal.

When not erect I think I look average both looking directly and in a mirror. When erect I think I look above average both looking directly and in a mirror. After masturbating or sex I feel the biggest because the blood is throbbing and the penis is more sensitive, so it feels very heavy...a nice feeling.
 
Old 09-03-2007   #23 (permalink)
rimmer9 is offline

Thanks Jason. lol
 
Old 09-03-2007   #24 (permalink)
VeeP is offline

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Originally Posted by LemacST View Post
Eitherway, the reason I made the comparison is because the honest truth is this: when I look down, I see a slightly chubby gut and a smallish penis, but when I look in the mirror, I see a pretty lean, decently defined torso and a decent-sized penis.
OK, here's what you do: Go get yourself one of those fun house mirrors, then everything will look the same from all angles and you'll have a giant chub.

Solved.
 
Old 09-03-2007   #25 (permalink)
sdbg is offline

Lemac: Dude, you're fine the way you are. I'd love to have a stomach like yours. Just remember: More than a mouthful is a waste!
 
Old 09-03-2007   #26 (permalink)
arktrucker is offline

I gotta say this about the mirror... for some it's the only way they ARE able to see the little soldier!! (from an old Playboy cartoon)
 
Old 09-03-2007   #27 (permalink)
buffbaldy is offline

I feel I look smaller when I look down at mine, as it is on the thick side, but when up beside anonther cock it looks big, thick and long.
 
Old 09-05-2007   #28 (permalink)
silvertriumph2 is offline

I think when viewing it from above will always seem smaller.
From the front, side, or from underneath is what shows it best,
and is what is seen most by others. Close up is even better!
 
Old 09-05-2007   #29 (permalink)
Gtowr is offline

I don't often shave my pubes, but when I do my dick looks huge from every angle.
 
Old 09-05-2007   #30 (permalink)
cgttown is offline

This perception issue is why most guys don't have a good idea how big they are. Sure the majority of guys on this site have actually measured their cock (at lots of stages). But I don't think that's what MOST do. (I do understand that "most" is a statistically oriented statement, and I cannot really say it without data). So, how we see ourselves when we look down at the urinal or shower and how we look in a mirror are two radically different things.

It reminds me about how most of us feel when we hear our voice on tape the first few times. It sounds nothing like the voice we think we have because we always hear our own voice through the bones in our head AND through our ears. It's a distortion as to how we sound to most people. The voice on the tape is closer to what others hear.

Telling ourselves we're closer to what we see in the mirror or picture, or closer to what we hear on the tape is a fine exercise. But better still is embracing what we see and hear in those situations, and working on changing what we can change.

I know there was a guy at my gym whom I thought was built so awesome. I sometimes stared at him in the shower, not lusting (ok, maybe a little), but more admiring. He was about my height, and within a few years of my age, but he looked a helluva lot better than I did. So I was really studying him to see what I wanted to achieve. When I mentioned him to another guy I know, and told him I thought that guy had the total package--looks, build, endowed, everything--he went to look. He then came back and said to me, "Yeah, he's definitely got it going on. But, man," he said, "you're no slouch either. Why do you think guys cruise you in the steam room and women flirt with you upstairs?"

That was an ego booster for sure, but I still set my sights on looking like the guy at the gym, or at least my version of a better built me that resembles him. I think those external goals are good for us.
 

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