How long can you last?

joejack

With women who enjoy long drawn out fucking in many different positions and who cum over and over, I have lasted over two hours on many an occasion, usually Saturday or Sunday mornings. I eventually allowed them to take my load after appropriate begging and pleading on their part. Sometimes they came so often they couldn't take it anymore and I let them have a nice nap without my cumming. Such a gentleman! Then after a light lunch, talley ho!

frizzle

Longest time was around 2-3hrs ish, but that was without cumming. Once had a handjob that lasted around 45 mins without cumming. extreme annoyance.

BlunderWoman

I think it's hot when guys cum fairly quickly (especially if they're really trying to hold it).... it's flattering and there's often a second time anyway...

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WildHoney

I agree with both ladies posting. I think men who cum quickly during sex the first time is very flattering and should not be seen as a bad thing at all. It is only annoying when it happens repeatedly time after time.


Also continuous pounding away trying to last record times is boring. My husband lasts a long time because I am very multi orgasmic and I cum up to 20 times if it is not a quickie. I don't dry up.

However a lot of women are happy with one or two orgams. I think as long as she is satisfied, your job is done.

I think the more relevant questions to find out if you are a good lover would be

How long do you spend on foreplay on average, not based on execeptional sessions???


That is how women will guage how good you are in bed.

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frizzle

As long as she wants. I find it personally that a better lover can make their partner feel excellent in bed, and I find if I don't do that, I fail in that department. So I don't stop until they tell me to.

Bootyman

Exactly... It depends from situation to situation, but in most cases I let my GF initiate penetration... she often says something like: "oh, give it to me already" or "you wanna come in?" or "I neeeeed it, and I need it bad!" and stuff like that...

lonesome_boy1980

I believe 4 play can be much more interesting and more pleasureable sometimes than the sex itself...And yes I last nearly 10 min, since I haven't done any practice to make it longer... I believe with a true partner I can last much more and with some rest and pause I can extend it way longer...

donkeydick69

for a really long time, and it sucks some times...

Channelwood

Until she's begging to penetrated, typically 45 minutes, unless doing an extended bondage scene. Good ropework takes time.

jayluna

depends her large and juicy the girls boobs are ....
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Bbucko

I prefer to edge for hours.

It's a long build-up, break, come back to a higher point, break, return and reach another plateau...you get the idea . Most of the pleasure of extending the encounter comes in full-body orgasm which can go on indefinitely and build in intensity, whereas an ejaculation usually signals the end of the play.

If I'm with someone who isn't chemically enhanced (I myself don't do drugs), it's usually about an hour and a half before he gets tired or sore. But there are plenty of exceptions, especially with guys over 45.

This can also depend on what we're doing. Some specialties take longer to accomplish than others, and pleasure rewards patience in spades. It's also important to point out that I'm not necessarily hard the whole time.

If I'm with someone who is of the same mind set, it can literally stretch out all night. Personally I'm disappointed in most encounters that last fewer than two hours much more than encounters where I don't ejaculate at all.

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cuteguyuk

It depends...

If Im having sex ni doggy position I find it easier to control - I think its because its not as involved and I can distract myself easier! But if its really hot sweaty hard fast sex then not as long!!

cgttown

This is a good question, and I have to say the hours and hours comments seem exaggerated to me, too. But what do I know. I remember a bud I used to jack around with in college who took forever to cum if he was beatin or whatever. I could sometimes hear him in his bed beatin off and it was FOREVER. For me, I sort of got used to cumming quickly in j/o sessions.

In sex, I usually last an average of 15 min for the first time. This is after penetration and with a woman. If I'm using a condom, then longer, but I don't like that. My wife is not a multi orgasmic usually. I've definitely taken her to 3-4 orgasms before, but usually that's post my orgasm and with manual stimulation. If she cums before I enter, then I'm not gettin in, so we don't do that. She says she's just TOO SENSITIVE then. I can relate.

In my experience with m2m sex, I can last longer...much longer. But in that case it's usually lots of different positions, and it's covered for sure, so there is less sensitivity. This isn't part of the question, but I find vaginal sex much more stimulating for me than anal as a top. So, while they're both good, I last longer on anal than vaginal.

Of course, MOST of my vaginal experience is with my wife, and my goal isn't long lasting as much as pleasing her, then me.

bigboy9239

I can relate...at least once or twice in my 30 years of marraige..I've gone for 1.5 to 2 hours...we had a contest..I wanted to make her come first 3. then 5, then 8, then 10 times....I was sore as hell the next day, but got on my J O B.. and did it. I guess the circumstances were right....and yes after about the 3 rd one she just layed there...Just like me..doing all the work LOL.

drgirth

I agree with that njqt. To answer the question, though, I can go into a "reserve" mode where I go through all the actions not thinking about cumming - if I get close, I change positions. Can easily go well over an hour that way. Usually, my lady cums first. When she's done, I lose my reserve and usually cum within 5 minutes, often less. No need to delay any more after she's done. Occasionally I do cum first, then she quickly goes there, too.