no orgasm...please help

This is the first time I've ever told anyone this so bare with me here. As a child, I believe I discovered masturbating way before I knew what it was. From the tender age of, about 5, I discovered that if I laid down on my stomach, apply pressure on flaccid penis by cupping it, and rub against the floor (like a horizontal hump) i could experience an orgasm. But, of course, I did not ejaculate. I distinctly remember the intensity of these orgasms. Yet, as I became older, my orgasms never were as intense as they were. I can masturbate both the traditional way (pumping it erect) or this "Kiddy" version with a flaccid penis. Yes, I can ejaculate with a flaccid penis. But, if normal semen is like elmer's glue, this is like super glue; watery and stickier. So, to the point...With all these years of applying pressure to my genitals, did I somehow damage them? What's wrong with me! Why can't I no long orgasm as i once did... Oh how I miss childhood...

not sure
my experience is similar to yours but I first came at 13 am 40 not and I shoot alot

imacdaddy...

I did the same thing. All babies have erections from birth (my father said I had one before the cord was cut) and I was aware of the enjoyment to be had with playing with it. It was a habit that became a bad habit and I still am bothered by it today. That is why I like to go commando a lot and never wear clothes when I am at home....easier to play with it.

My parents used to let me crawl around the house in the nude a lot. And, I did the same thing as you by lying on my stomach and rubbing my penis back and forth on the rug or floor. I can't remember whether it was flaccid or erect, but I would imagine it was erect.

I don't really know how old I was when, still doing this either on the floor in my room or in the bed, but I must have been about 4 or 5 when I had my first dry orgasm. And yes, I was now old enough to remember, so I know I did it with both an erection and when flaccid.

I STILL do flaccid masturbation today, but in a little bit different way. Now my flaccid masturbating is done by kegeling. I usually lay back and kegel, letting the movement of my dick jerk back and forth (actully retracting inward and outward) until I have a wet orgasm, or I do it as I would do edging with an erection and not coming to an orgasm. It takes quite a while for it to finally reach orgasm, but it does happen and it is quite intense.

I also remember the childhood dry orgasms were REALLY INTENSE! But, it probably was just that it was a new thing to experience.

As far as your ejaculate. I don't think yours is any problem. Sometimes I have wartery, sticky cum, and other times it is thick and gloppy. Sometimes even stringy. You are normal, man. Don't worry about it. Just enjoy!

HI Imacdaddy- I am not sure that anything is wrong with you at all. We are all different. I likewise became aware of my dick when I was young, way before I was 5, more like 3 and from then all I found it alot of fun to mess with. i could get a hard on just by thinking about it and I would pull my foreskin back and start rubbing on it. I have no idea where I learned the technique but it felt so good that some days I did it everytime I knew that I wouldn't get caught. I started cuming when I was ten years old and by the time I was 13 or 14 years old, I was shooting at least 14 or 15 big shots of very thick, heavy, sticky cum. IF I jacked several times in an afternoon or evening, it would get thinner and thinner until the second or third was just almost like water, but with a little white color to it. I never worried about it.

It has worked fine all my life, produced 6 pregancies and I am now 67 and still get off at least 3 times a week and many weeks 5 times. I am down to shooting 9 or 10 shots now, but it is still heavy, sticky, and very thick. Hope that helps, Nicer

Yes, it's very possible (and based on what you're saying, likely).

That's a damaging position to masturbate in. I'll try to find an article on it for you (and anyone else with interest). I forget the exact name.

Found it.

Go Ask Alice!: Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome (TMS)?

It appears to be more theoretical, and not actual tested science, but there's always a possibility. I'd check with your Doctor, they might be able to run some tests.