Ever feel that women only like you for your dick?

I use to wonder if my size had an influence on how women feel about me once we are dating. That is one of the reason's I joined this sight. I can't say that any woman has started dating me just because I am well endowed.

No. I don't even feel that women like me lol.

But the few times they have its usually because they think I'm "cute". I should imagine the endowment is just a nice surprise.

Actually I did feel special before and it wasn't because of my penis size but rather its softness and the extra skin

It was funny because up until then I thought my penis was normal. But it turns out most men have a short foreskin. We had a chuckle about me being a freak

I feel like that whenever white men would step up and talk to me.

Very true. My girlfriends and I share everything, right down to the dirty details, which has always shocked the men in my life, relationships wise and just friends. When I have asked them if they discuss the same details with their friends, they look appalled. I have been led to understand that
it's one thing to tell their buddies, "Oh yeah, I banged the hell out of this chick I met last night." It's another to discuss their woman.

Ummmmm....way more than "cute", SLB. I've seen your picture without the "sunglasses", and from the way the woman chase you around this forum, I believe "hot" would be the correct description.

I usually don't feel that women like me either
I have abandonment issues tho
they say they like me, I just do not believe it..

I'm sure it happens. One night when I was at a party, there was this girl who is pretty hefty and not very attractive...she has amazing tits though. I was a little bit drunk (seriously, it wasn't "beer goggles") and she was fun to talk to. After a while I grabbed her boobs, well, this was after everyone within a group of circle made a comment about them and some went to reach (we are all acquainted or good friends). That night I'm sure I would of hooked up with her just for that. I don't see why it wouldn't be the same for a guy and his endowment. Sometimes certain things just drive men and women wild, especially if they're feeling horny. It doesn't just have to be dick or boobs, it could be a nice stomach, nice ass, whatever.

Flattery will get you everywhere lol.

Lemac:

Girls don't generally grab crotches. But guys do. I've had my crotch grabbed by quite a few guys...mostly 'str8s' lol. One girl has grabbed my crotch...but she was 'free spirited'. She actually said it was small. But I'd just got off my bike after riding around late at night and it was cold I swear :p

And when I have grabbed or tried to grab girl's boobs, its more likely to get me slapped than shagged. Maybe its different for you though!

But yeah, about girls and how graphic they get with their stories...kind of a turn off to be honest.

One time, this gross girl who I was unfortunate enough to be seeing for a while went into great detail about her very limited sex life. It was her, I and three other friends of ours. She was basically the ring leader and she talked about how huge one guy was where "it didn't work at first", how small another guy was where she "couldn't even feel it", among other more personal details that others didn't want to her. She was under the impression that I'm very promiscuous (and I am not) so I could tell she was saying those things because a)she thought she'd look cool and look like she knew what she was talking about and b)she was trying to make me jelous because I wasn't giving her the attention that she craved.

I never ended up having sex with her but we did other things which proved to me that she would of been a TERRIBLE lay. She was a really gross, sloppy, breathy, horrible kisser, was clumbsy, failed at trying to be dominant (which turns me off anyway, I like girls who are more submissive) among other things.

But see, I would not share these kinds of things with my friends. I just don't care here because this is LPSG. She definitely DID share all my private information, good or bad ("bad" probably being her downtalking my size, as I remember her doing that to her ex who allegedly was "huge" while she dated him then once they broke up he was "small", heh). I can't believe I got in the mix with her. Besides sexually being a bad partner, she was also a sour, broken-souled bitch ever. I can't think of anyone that really likes her, she's really that big of a bitch.

Sorry for steering away from the topic! I just had to let that out :P

I think your story is a little different than the normal sharing girls do. Most girls share with their close girlfriends, not out with the guy they are talking about and mutual friends. Nor are they going to discuss how big or small another boyfriend was outside of their circle unless they have an ulterior motive.

And, it sounds like there were other issues. One, you thought she was "gross", which she probably picked up on in some way, and two, you believe she downtalked your size, probably because you knew on some level that she realized how you really felt which caused her to be negative towards you as well.

And, since you found her unappealing, most guys are not going to share that with their buddies. I think you would have reacted differently if she had been someone who really turned you on and you were proud of, and she was bragging about how great you were.

Ah, the beauty salon!! Home of the most explicit public conversations ever. I learned that about 20 years ago.

Women will talk about the most intimate details amongst themselves and what women want is right out there in black and white for men to find. Cosmo, Glamour, Redbook, Marie Claire, all there in print. I read them all, just to know.

And women's openess has helped me talk about anything too and with my close friends male, we share anything.

I can't tell you how many times a woman's mouth will just drop open and say to me *how do you know THAT!* And I tell them read it a women's mag or heard it. And I think its helped me as a lover, cause i am so open and can discuss anything with a woman. but is a learned trait.

so what your saying is if she was a different person saying differnt things he'd have a different reaction?
isn't that fairly obvioius

Do I ever feel that Women only like me for my dick?...lol...no. Are you finding that an inconvience?

oops...inconvenience. Spelling...hu nu

Maybe I'm weird. I never discuss intimate details with girlfriends. And if a hairdresser wants personal details, it's usually a male wanting to know if I like giving fellatio...

Girlfriends are for discussing kids, school, cooking, skin treatments, fashion, where to find good deals, and that kind of stuff.

I only talk sex with men I'm having sex with... and (ta da!) right here at LPSG.

My policy: "Don't kiss and tell"

I like your policy. btw. I havent been with a girl just for the size of her breasts so my past girlfriends haven't been with me just because I'm a little bigger in the cock department.