A tactfull way to invite a lady to have sex

I was refering to women of quality.

Unless you look like Pitt or Clooney...etc

Now who are you to say what woman is quality and what woman is not ??? just because a woman sleeps with me soon after meeting me does not make me respect her any less than a woman that ive dated for months and still at first base with.

Dude you have really annoyed me crapping on about quality. my gf had a 1 night stand a long time prior to meeting me and i tell you now she is of the highest grade so piss off.

If you get the green light (steady eye contact, smiles, body contsct is even better - be it just a hand on yours or on your shoulder) guage the right time when you're alone together (she will instigate this, usually). in the midst of normal conversation say "I'm gonna fuck you".

Works every time.

PS. Don't say "I WANNA fuck you" - errm, get in the queue, cuz most of the guys do. It has to be "I'm GUNNA fuck you.

Makes all the difference and I never yet met a girl \I said tht to that I didn't fuck.

I'm hard to get and would say no even if I thought he was hot. I actually get off on playing hard to get. Especially if there is any chance I want to date the guy.
Though a few rare times I've gone out having already decided I was going to have sex and not get to know anyone.
I would have a 20-30 minute conversation with a attractive guy I picked just to make sure he wasn't dumb or egotistical, then I would ask him if he wanted to go back to my place, just like that. They are always stunned and surprised but have never said no.
They are more surprised when I don't want their number and don't ever sleep with them again if I see them out again.
It is easier for women, you straight men have it the hardest lol.

Ziu, Dude relax, its just my opinion based on my experiences.
Women of quality, a true 9 or 10, not only in terms of looks but social value. These women are the ones I was refering too. These women that get approached all the time with guys saying "OMG you hot!!"
(My point is being supoported as I type this by anettenorge.)

As the thread starter said, women who were "smokin hot" will rejct offers like this because they get them ALL the time.
Like I said before, with high quality women, unless you are superstar/supermodel attractive, it is very unlikely that this strategy will work.

Let me say though, I have girlfriends that, were you good looking enough for them and were intelligent and dressed with taste, would take you up on casual sex. Your best bet is to be honest 'Hey I just want casual sex, I'm not looking to get serious' or something like that. If you stroll up and say 'wanna fuck' etc you've ruined any chance you might have had. All they can say is no..or fuck off ha.

Sorry i suppose i feel it comes back to the whole slut v's stud how sexist is that huh ? girl sleeps with few guys shes a slut guy sleeps with few girls hes a stud and that crap really annoys me.I mean lets face it what is the term "quality" really pointing at ive known some women that have been with a lot of fellas and they are really nice and ive known fellas that look at each woman as a conquest so tell me wheres the fair in it ? like you this is just my opinion on it!!!!!!

just for the record in my younger days i dated a girl who had sex with men for money she was a top chick little screwy but top girl and she slept with guys for a living prior to me dating her but alas it was not to be but even to this day15 years on i still hold her in the same esteem when i first met her i dint care what she did for a living i liked her and thats the way i think most ppl should view each other cause we all have a past, and none of us are perfect.

You probably have good game. Unlike those other guys who approached with money, you stood out and were different.
Typically women will not accept a direct invite for sex, research has also shown this. Picking up women for a one-night stand is different, and much more likely to succeed. And i think this is what you're reffering to...

Oh hi, you're hot!! Can we have sexual relations pls? lol

Sorry what does good game mean ??

LOL

Why not simply "Are you interested in having casual sex?".

There's no way to ask, and you would not have a chance even if you went naked. When do men realise that the when, where and who with is solely decided by the women?

Having good game means that you can pick up women effectively.

I agree 100%
Sex cannot be the "fault" of the women, because then she is percieved as easy/slutty.
Sex just has to "happen". "OMG sex, how did that happen?"

Of course there are exceptions to every rule, but I find this to be typical.