A tactfull way to invite a lady to have sex

ManlyBanisters

Hmm - there I go again - not knowing my r's from my elbow

At that rate? I still say, ""

capslock

Move to Los Angeles, preferably the beach area, and use the shotgun method: walk into a bar and try to get as many digits as you can. I see the supidist shit go down in that town just for people to get numbers. The first few will be tough, but soon your reputation will spread, also your confidence goes up. Wear what money you have, but don't be flashy. Shit like rolex watches and rayban sunglasses... stuff like that. Just make sure you are trim and clean cut. Needless to say get either a pricey set of wheels or a classic car.

L.A. is a morally bankrupt town coupled with the lure of fame. People will act aproximately 30% dumber and do as much stupider things than they would int here natural habitat. Its a vice city so there is no need for justifying the manner in which I advised you conduct yourself. Its just accepted. You just have to detach yourself from whatever morality you have. treat LA like the whore that she is, and she will reward you like the messed up city that she is!

BigDuder

machine gun approach. go up to every woman you see for a day and you'll probably get some.

NineInchCock_160IQ

In the United States the chances of this working as so slim it's not worth trying. So do it the way everyone else does: pretend like you want something else. The women know what you're doing. The men know what they're doing. If you come right out and ask for what you want, though, then suddenly you are creepy.

NineInchCock_160IQ

Not according to the research done in this field. Unless by "some" you mean "slapped in the face"

wldhoney

LMAO!!! Shhhhhh! That's like telling the bad guys that kryptonite weakens Superman....
I agree with njqt. I have to have some sort of intellectual and physical connection with a guy, and a certain amount of respect. It doesn't have to take days but it comes from conversation and looking into his eyes, watching his body language. And if I think a man spreads himself around, it's a turn off. Why would I want something anyone could have?

Man was framed for War, and woman for the pleasure of the Warrior.

I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. ~~ Anais Nin

"Come to the edge" He said
she said "i am afraid"
"Come to the edge" He said
she went, He pushed her
and she flew...

7x6

But the confidence and experience gained from just talking to all of those women will get you closer to your goal, hell, just the way it erodes your fear of rejection will help. I have a friend who took up this approach (after years of nothing) and now gets more pussy than anyone else I know. He doesn't ask for a fuck of course, he just waits until he's leaving a bar or something, just comes out with outrageous compliments (like the shoes thing mentioned earlier) and tries for a phone number and a goodbye kiss and maybe one time in three, gets both, later turning maybe one in three into a fuck or a short fling. 1 in 9 sounds like a bad return but when you try it 10-20 times a week, it all adds up :)

Personally, this isn't my style, since I became a born again single guy at the age of 40 I just make freinds with women and end up sleeping with the ones I really get on with. In my experience there is no such thing as a risk of becoming 'just friends', it's just striking that all important balance, women need to know that you don't JUST want to fuck them, the important word in that sentence is 'just', never leave them in any doubt that you do actually see them as a sexual being.

ClaireTalon

This is what such a conversation might run like:

Man: You want to have sex with me?
Woman: Oh no, please!
Man: C'mon! 5 minutes...

Probably you should consider sex less as something you can ask for, and more as something you can earn yourself. I have slept with men who I got to know the very same evening, maybe four or five hours earlier, but that never happened because one of them asked me to have sex with them. It was because there was a sexual spark flying, and because I wanted it. If I hadn't wanted it, I wouldn't have had sex with them, end of the story.

And as I rumble along, please don't think there's such a thing as free sex. You either pay for it (prostitution), or have to carry my suitcase, or you have to do some work around my apt. that I haven't done so far. But sex for free? Not here

A few of my female professional mates used to call me "Bear Fox" during the 80s. You guess why, and you win a prize...

A reply to that one would be one of the rare exceptions where a PM from a stranger would get a reply ;-)
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My idea for a MasterCard "Priceless" ad campaign:

Pack of XL condoms shredded: $ 11.99
Panties torn: $ 25
Bed broken: $ 950
Mindblowing sex: Priceless.

Not_Punny

Well put!

No such thing as free sex from women!

And for financially independent women like me, "payments" accepted include: Listening while biting tongue, flowers, attention, moving furniture, loyalty, good conversation, cooking, help with dishes, watering rose garden, funny cards, poems, sitting through the occasional chick-flick, letting ME choose the restaurant even if we are going Dutch, lingerie gifts, and most important of all - being nice to my kids.

See? It ain't free at all!!!

Those who jump off a Paris bridge are in Seine. (anonymous)

AlteredEgo

I don't know. I'd wonder what was wrong with someone who I didn't know who wanted to have sex with me. Do they have a sex addiction? Are they disease-ridden? Do they do this all the time? How carefully are they screening their other partners? Do they really think I'm hot, or is it justthat I'm here?

I cannot get down with a stranger. I would run far and fast from one who wanted to have sex with me.

Jeffin90620

No, there is no polite or tactful way to ask. Most women, even if they were interested, would be insulted by the question (or would at least say "No") because to actually say they want to have casual sex would mark them as sluts/whores/tramps/etc.

On the plus side, it is true that many women will be interested in having sex with a well-endowed man shortly after meeting him. Before my current girlfriend, I was at a nightclub with some casual acquaintances and some people I had never seen before. When I stood up, the woman seated next to me saw the bulge in my pants. She invited several of the people to her home after the club closed, knowing that everyone else would decline. She still expected me to make the first (actual) move, but when I did, her expression said she was thinking "Finally!".

My suggestion is to wear light-colored pants that are not tight, but drape well enough to show bulges (I lean towards khaki).

Some women will initiate conversation, but will need a reason. Maybe carry an interesting-looking book, magazine or accessory (not birds... every guy I've seen who's tried that was described as 'weird' by the women I spoke with).

If you notice her checking you out, but she is not saying anything to break the ice, you could say, "Hi. You look like you're interested in my <book/magazine/accessory>. Would you like to check it out?" or something similar. If it's a magazine and you see her on a regular basis (you both ride the same train), offer to let her borrow it for a day or so, so you'll both have reasons to talk to each other the next time you meet.

Also, don't make a production out of displaying your bulge. It will come across as a crude gesture which will make them think you are trolling for sluts. They may be willing to be sluts with you, but they don't want to think of themselves as sluts or as one in a long line of conquests.

In whatever conversation you have with her, do not refer to your endowment at all. If she is checking it out, do not let her know you know she is doing that.

invisibleman

What if that smokin' hot woman turned out to be a man? What if that smokin' hot had herpes? What if she had AIDS? What if she turned out to be a psycho killer?

Some beautiful things should be worshipped from afar.

bforestlake2

12yrs. And a 118 different beautiful women later I've found it not to difficult to do. Be unique, look fresh and stand out, always look her in the eyes, especially when she's talking, compliments and liquor will do wonders, lie about what you do, unless your looking for a girlfriend, make yourself sound rich and important, but not cocky, ask her to dance so you to can get closer and groove, don't ask for sex just let it happen, have a nice ride and decent place of your own, or go over to her place if she feels more comfortable, then show her your huge dick and shake it at her. Or like Tony Montana from scarface said "First you get the money, then you get the power, and then you get the girl." this will work with any woman if done correctly. Make them "WANT" to have sex with you, not "MAKE" them have sex with you. Peace!!

Captain Elephant

I tell you what doesn't work:

"Wanna ride the pepperoni of love?"

"How about a tripod massage?"

"Does this mustache make my tongue look long?"

Now, change the venue: how about in a lively bar, near the college, after the first week of classes?

New End

I can say, I have never, ever, not once asked for sex or a sex act. Never.

Asking is so awkward and unnatural

"uh... can we have sex?"
"umm.. ok, I guess"
"uh... ok.. so, like, take your clothes off or something"