The Don't Cum Experiment

I was celibate for eight months, and it was no biggy. I found through out that period, without trying really, a more close bond with friends, as I wasn't out cruising, or looking for fun elsewhere. I focused on my whole body and well being, I suppose directing the energies I put into sex into my self care.

I did find a "natural peace"...sounds crazy when I type now but I checked my diary for that period and honestly, after the 5 month mark, the routines of sexual behaviours were so sublimated for me I was quite content in enjoying non sexual relationships... the most interesting thing I note from my diary is how other friends and fuck-buddies reacted- anything to a challenging stance, provoking a reaction, to disbelief and rejection, like I was crazy. I guess they had an ulterior motive- who can say, I was (am now) pretty highly sexed, and was uncomfortable with the quality of the encounters I was making.

The physical aspects I didn't mention in the diary so I can't help with those consequences, but yes, you'll find a "nocturnal emission" once in a while will occur...it did for me- (I'd never experienced one before!)

Follow up report #1
Elapsed time: 1 day and 2 hours

So far, so good. Everything seems ok. Maybe this is the calm before the storm? This would normally be a good time in the morning for me but I made up my mind yesterday and so far, everything is under control. I don't think just touching myself counts so I might cop a feel. I am sure I will when I am in the shower. I mean, you have to wash your stuff so I will have to touch myself then.

Thanks Veep, you might be right, I can see how the pics could cause problems (uh, just don't look?) And... WildHoney, thanks for watching, but I have to say, you aren't making this any easier! Your avatar alone is going to give me ideas that could put this entire experiment in jeopardy.

so far so good for me, i did wake up to a huge boner though. but didnt play with it

i guess i should join this thing to see who gives in first haha lol, the game is on gentlemen lol

How long do I have to be Queen of the Castle?

im in.

Ive already gone two weeks. But yesterday, I tried jelqing, (just read about it) and felt some desire, but then fell asleep.

I don't know what is wrong with me, after the real thing, masturbation kind of sucks now... and I have become bored with porn.

like huw ginnit, I have become much more is searchof peace and success lately, and been doing alot of things. I have only had probably 3 orgasms in the past 2 months.

2 Days 10 Hrs


*With every erection i get a little more precum
*More, harder erections

oh i wanna touch my self so bad

I also tried it but the more days I don't cum,
the more my dick awakens...a day. And it's really uncomfortable especially when your in public places and you can't control it. It just go bulging out!

Elapsed Time: One day, 14 hours

So far, I am still holding out. Is this what it is like in the military?? Showing some discipline, you bet. This is NOT a game, btw... it is a scientific quest for knowledge. We just want the facts ma'am and sir...

Along with huw_ginnit and New_End, I am also aware of desiring to make changes in my life... finding peace is not a bad idea. But I am not sure being without some kind of release is peaceful! But it is too early to tell if this is true so the experiment will continue. I know I get restless after one day, even two might be the limit... catch me in three days and this could be a whole other kind of thread.

Elapsed Time: One day, 16 hours

I thought about SEX just as much it seems tonight. Maybe a bit more. I am going to try HARDER to take my mind off it since my hands are also off it.

Joining in on this experiment it's been 25 hrs

I cannot resist the temptation of cumming it is everpowering. when I'm not having sex I masterbate at least two times a day. when I don't I walk around with a major hard on I guess it is also because I have a massive set of balls I am always having precum in my underwear and have to release some how.. sorry guys can participate in this study I love cumming too much..

I can't go without cumming for more than 24 hours if I pass that I walk around with a massive hard on and precum in my shorts. sorry guys but abstaining from cumming is imposible for me I have massive balls and a fat cock and if I don't cum my bulge gets even larger than what it is and m partner alreadt complains about lock jaw so imagine ...

ok... that sounds like me... before I took on this experiment. No need to apologize, it is what it is. You reminded me how much I like having the pleasure, how much my excess hormones are with me all the time. I am beginning to realize this abstinence thing might become VERY difficult to pull off... or, uh, well, NOT pull off.