Need your support

Lafever ---

Let me ask you this question: Would you leave your daughter all alone in this woman's care for a weekend?

If no, then why are you leaving YOURSELF in her company/care?

Whether you stay or not is up to you. But I think you should consider seeing a counsellor to work out why you are willing to suffer this kind of abuse, especially if you have a history of abuse (parents, school, work, other gfs, etc.)

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BTW, I have never, EVER, had a guy do for me even HALF of what you have done for this woman. And she doesn't even appreciate it??!!

Now she says she`s gonna call the internet provider to have the internet turned off, when she blows off her friends i push her to call them back till she says fine i will, then she gets on the phone with them and her whole tone changes to one of oh hey, yea i couldn`t answer you because of bla..bla.... bla..., whats really got her upset is i`m calling her on her shit.


lafever

If you my friends dont hear from me all of a sudden its because she`s succeeded in shutting of the internet, i love you all.


lafever

I`m still here because i do love her and i wouldn`t want someone to just bail on me, i treat her with the respect that i would want her to give me, i want her to get therapy. I dont think she`s ever had reall love and i`m trying my best to show her what love is, she`s always telling me about how messed up her ex`s were, i know thats got to have something to do with it. She picks relationships that wont work out so she doesnt have to really love them, someone really hurt her in the past. What messed her up is she probly thought that of me and she didn`t realize that i do counciling for others. Her old ways backfired on her and she`s forced to look at herself wich she doesnt want to do. Theres a reason why her family keeps a distance, they already knew, she`s always blamed her behavior on the men she`s been with and she cant do that now so her excusses are gone. What she needs is a good old fashioned intervention with people who love her.


lafever

My first clue should have been the dog she kept in a cage 24/7, and she kicks the cat. Those animals love me and in a way i dont want to abandon them.


lafever

I am starting to believe that there is no girlfriend and you are making the whole story up. You may just want sympathy for no reason. You are also only telling us your side of the story...if it is true.

OK, I'm seeing a pattern here. It would appear you have read nothing that any of your "friends" here has posted. Did it dawn on you that if you do this kind of pitiful whining to your friends without listening to them or getting help (which I am now convinced you really need), that you might drive them away just as you are doing people on here that are in your corner?

Arliss is right. This is right out of a Jerry Springer script.

Cut the crap. You are a grown man, FIX YOUR SITUATION! You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. Ditch the drama. That is all the last few posts have been. And lastly...

GET THERAPY!!! Do you not see you have slid into a serious depression? You think perpetuating this "noble" cycle of yours is going to help? NOT A DAMN BIT!!

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this out. You have serious issues of your own. Go it alone and get the help for you and quit trying to save others. Save yourself first.

Lafever is someone who is need of attention..you can tell that from his earlier posts ..he is very strange..i wouldn't be surprised at all if there was no girlfriend....he knows that people on here tend to pour their hearts out without evaluating a situation...and he is taking advantage of that..

If Mem is right and you are fabricating this? You are in need of a lot more help than you think.

Let me ask you this, why are you on this thread then, no one is holding you at gunpoint, and this is my life and i`m not going to hide in recluse anymore, she`s calmed down now and were talking about when i`m leaving so i`ll keep you`all up to date after we have a heart to heart discussion and figure out if were just going to go our sepparet ways. As for mem0101 how do i know that your not her little spy on here. If so bite me, you might be just like her co-signing her shit or maybe her boyfriend or wanna be boyfriend waiting like a vulture to feed on her.


lafever


p.s. And if i`m wrong about you mem0101 than i appaulagize, i`m a little upset right now.

I am her spy on here ..not mem0101..... I am..and guess what she just told me ..oh no...you will not beleive what she just sent to me in a text....

Once again my brother. I think you hit something there

You are right. Vaya con Dios.

Arliss if you are, know this, what comes around goes around.


lafever

Lafever,

I'm going to hope that your screen name means what it says... that you can laf and find the humor in things.

I'm not saying that you're insane, but check this out... my FAVORITE definition of "insanity": Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

I have that definition carved on my forehead, and it's always a big help to me.

And now -- let's interject some levity... think of that definition, and watch this video of a baby and a lemon....


baby and lemon