Sitting in Sauna at Gym

WTF- I'm sitting in the suana at my gym last night, towel drapped over my legs, pick it up to patt the sweat off my face a few times, and as I'm
'rearranging' the towel, the guy across from me says, "you don't have to wear that towel in here you know." I say, "sorry? what did you say?" He says, you're being awful careful to cover yourself, I said you don't have to cover yourself in here." I tell him I've been coming here for a while, lift up my towel, say, I've got nothing to hide, and then cover myself again. He gets up, says he noticed, and heads to the shower. What the fuck? Was this guy coming on to me in a fucking gym of all places, or what do you guys think? No ones ever invited me to drop my towel before, then again, i'm not really shy and love to let it swing in the wind, but holy fuck??? What was that about?

maybe he was coming on to you, was he looking at your dick when you dropped your towel?

somethign similar happened to me before exept the guy told me that if i wanted to be there i had to be with out a towel kinda triped me out

yeah, i picked my towel up off my legs/cock and said, I've got nothing to hide, and he looked. Strangest thing I've ever had happen. I've had lots of dudes "sneek" a peek while in sauna/shower/urinal, but to "advise" me I didn't need to wear a towel, holy shit, isn't that obvious, I'm in a men's sauna??? I've not been real careful with the towel, I would have just patted my face a few timews with the towel, exposing my junk, but this guy offers this helpful hint. Seems really strange. Older guy too, like mid 40's.

He is probably just being nice and is comfortable with nudity... don't read anything into it.

He was coming on to you big time. A similar thing happend to me the other day. He was an unattractive overweight hairy backed pig. Plus had a TINY dick. I am predominently gay but come on ----This guy was overly confident and a gross pig. I will get hell for this post but,primarily from the same pigs

yeah, that's what i gotta go with. Just seemed really stange. I'm not new, or anything, and am real comfortable walking around the locker room/showers, and it's not like I had the towel wrapped tightly around me. Just seemed stange, but I'm gonna hope you're right. Still, I'll have to be ready if I see him again and he offers advice like that.

I'm not gay, and my gym is in no way a gay hang out, but this seemed "gay" to me, but didn't want to jump to any conclusions. Does this thing happen often to guys? Cause I've been going to guyms and involved in sports my whole life, and I've never had anything like this happen. Again, some "peeks" and looks, who doesn't, but a blatant, drop your towel kind of comment. I can't believe I didn't react stronger at thew time. I was just really taken back/shocked likely.

Trust me! This was blatant come on. Why should another guy care what you wear or show in the steamer.I could care less if you had on a wet suit.If I wanted you out of it I would tell you so. Like hey! come on you don't need a wet suit here lets see that cock of yours. I don't think so. Those old cougars at the heath club will stop at nothing. One thing they have is balls. down to there knees.I hate people coming on to me at the gym.Unless their incredibly hot(it has happend),but it is so rare.Its the desparate old farts who use those tired old come on lines.BTW whats your sign

My sign? scorpio. Is that what you're asking, or am I being nieve? learning a lot here tonight. What's my sign got to do with anything? Why do you ask?

Its an old come on line that creeps used to use in the 70's and 80's. Like hey man WHAT'S YOUR SIGN because they had nothing esle to say,plus it's not pointed like hey catch the Eagle's last night (you don't have to know the answer)

Turns out I'm am nieve...

The more I think about it_____the easier it would be to have you.Thank the lucky boy in the next steam room.

...and what the fuck do I thank the "lucky boy in the next steam room" for? Fuck dude, the next dude that suggests I drop my towel may end up with an invitation for me to fuck his ass, with a steel toe pair of hot sweaty work boots. Thanks for the heads up gjorg, but I'm not interested in you "having me." Good luck with that.

Oh for God's sake....a guy came on to you in the steamroom...get over it. It's not like he molested you.

It doesn't make you any less straight or any more gay. You don't need to try and prove it by making cliche threats we've all heard hundreds of times. There's nothing to be afraid of, no one questions your 100% straight.

Take it as a compliment and move on.