Need Advice

yes, well... I feel much better now. But, now I've got to run to the grocery store once I sort out what I'd like to make for dinner. I'm always so bloody hungry after a sound rogering.

The holiday fun and one night affair came to an end. You've gone your separate ways. Realistically I wouldn't expect him to call as you have left him and you live far away. Keeping in contact by email was sufficient. You could communicate more once you decide to move to Florida. I hope that he wasn't put off by your angry email and that you can remain friends.

um...
reading this thread its pretty dang clear why the guy did not call you back.


In contacting him after the fact you were a snotty little twerp... acting like a little clingy bitch.


That is not meant as an attack on you, personally... The folks here are simply trying to get across to you that that is how your message came across.

Whatever inclination the guy might have had to get together with you... you very effectively KILLED with your petulant demands.


Your responses to folks trying to give you honest, if critical, advice, demonstrates that you have real issues with anyone telling you something you don't want to hear... real issues with thinking other people should behave as YOU demand.

Do you stomp your pretty little foot, too?


Here's the best advice you will ever get...

if you want to be loved.... you damn well better be lovable.

lol...why revive such an old thread? i'm sure the issue has been resolved by now...

Before this thread I wasn't aware of this term. I thought to myself that it pertained to a hothead as I wasn't aware of its Fatal Attraction origins:

Bunny Boiler - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia


He's moved to Florida will. Perhaps he can rekindle an old flame now that he's there.

The clue that he wasn't going to call was in your original post OP (Mem). In the gay world, and yes even the straight ones, you either get the "I'll try to call" or "I will call", etc. Don't sit by the phone. The majority of the time the call doesn't come.

At this point, you have already sent an "angry email" anyway. You've already shown him by that angry email that the night in all probability meant a lot more to you than to him.

Let it go. He has your email. He has your phone number. If he does call in the future (cuz in the back of his mind you are an easy score) and you are hopefully past this you can tell him "you are busy - sorry!".