Okay, this is something thats kinda bugged me since I was about 16.

Firstly, I'm not hugely hung (at my hardest, 8 x 5.5ish), but I guess I'm well above average - I've hd no complaints for girls or guys.

But this question is about me taking it up the ass from a dude whos as hubng, or more hung than me.

I'm really, REALLY into big dicks - the problem is, I'm also stupidly tight. While I can give a pretty damn good blowjob to a well hung dude, when it comes to penetration, sometimes I end up having to give up unless I'm a) drunk, b) stoned or c) in a position where I cant wimp out (read; bondage ).

So I've discussed this with a few guys before and after sex. Some guys have said "if you practise every day with dildos and buttplugs, you'll loosen up enough), but this is where I get a little torn (no pun intended) - See, when I'm fucking a guy, I kinda like it REALLY tight. Not like sticking my cock into a vice, but you know, a fair amount of firm resistance. A butt I can just stick it into with no problem is a bit of a turn-off for me.

So what do you guys think/recommend?