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Old 08-30-2006   #3 (permalink)
stud_hunter
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Originally Posted by Gillette

As far as my wanting to sleep with someone, attentiveness.
A man who watches for your responses as you have a conversation or your expressions when you are enjoying food is a man who will be responsive to you in bed as well....

But really it boils down to two things.
Trust and arousal.
Um, YYYESSS. Gillette you nailed it. I want a guy who won't just be doing his own thing in bed. I want a guy who is totally focused on my pleasure, and to do that he needs to be tuned into my responses and cues. So yes, what she said. I'd also add confidence. I love confidence in a guy, even a little harmless cockiness. Not the annoying loud kind, just that quiet cockiness that let's me know he knows something I don't .