Originally Posted by madame_zora

Geez, I can't believe I missed a post! Sorry, we weren't trying to be rude. This is actually a thing I have a great deal of interest in. I happen to think compatibility is an important consideration for a good realtionship. While anything can be worked out, I think it's better not to go into a relationship with too many obstacles if it is possible to avoid a few. I guess it really depends on your priorities, but I've personally been in several realtionships where sex was not a source of pleasure and I will never do it again! For me, finding a good lover is a big part of finding a person with whom I could actually fall in love. If the sex isn't there, the love won't follow. I don't believe in platonic love being able to carry a relationship, and lousy sex is almost worse than none at all.

I am sure there are many who will disagree with this, but since I answered first, it's just my view. I think many who are honest would say they consider it important, or at least wish they had.

Also, I would like to add that it's "size compatibility" that's important. My daughter just came home the other day after talking with some of her girlfriends (ages 19 to 24), and said she was surprised to hear them talking about how they won't fuck a guy if his dick is too big! She said she felt sad for the big guys and wondered if they had to deal with that often. A lot of women really do feel that way, there's some weird belief that having sex with a big guy will stretch you out of shape and then no other guy will enjoy being with you! Maybe there are some more practical concerns if the girl's vag is small and tight it could actually hurt, but I think most of it is mythology. At any rate, I think it's a good idea to find a partner who actually wants what you have, and is in the same basic range on sex drive, because if one isn't getting enough to feel satisfied and the other feels fucked to death, that's a recipe for disaster.