ohio, i lost my really long reply to you,then i read MattMatts response.she's got it!but here's some more... take a shower together in the morning,have her jack you off.if she's not interested in that,do it yourself so she can watch.i'll bet she likes to watch you cum.i'll bet most of the lpsg ladies love to watch a man cum.take a bubble bath as a date and don't pressure her for sex.have fun!PERSIST!my wife and i do these things because her drive is not even close to mine.we're 55 and she has suffered the dreaded MENOPAUSE and one casualty was her sex drive.it has just faded.because we sometimes have to wait a month or more for intercourse(yes really)we do so many other things.she always knows how i feel about her and i ALWAYS tell her"we really need to get together,but i'll wat for you",and i tell you when it happens,it's explosive!!!!!!ROCK ON!!!!!!!!!alien