Since you asked..

I watch porn maybe once a week, and read (and write also) erotic fiction daily. Not het, though - I'm a big fan of gay porn and slash fanfics. There's nothing quite like two gorgeous guys getting it on.

What excites me is mutual enjoyment (both parties getting off on the fucking (or blowing)), and the general lack of degrading that seems to be prevalent in het porn. Also, I just think it's just so fucking sexy to see some pretty young guy getting some serious cock from a hunky older man.