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Originally Posted by BronxBombshell No one makes this decision for a man. He can do it if he wants later, but once done, it cannot truly be undone... I will show him videos of baby boy's having the procedure, and ask him if he really could subject a baby to that. I may find some to show him anyway. |
for me it has nothing to do with what I prefer and everything to do with the above. Mr.Sares is cut and assumed we'd cut our boy, but I showed him pictures of the procedure and told him
he'd have to arrange it and tell the midwives what he was doing, since he'd have to take the baby into the hospital for the first time, to have the procedure done. it cooled his jets pretty fast.
if he had been hell-bent and tried to take my baby to the hospital I probably wouldn't have kept my cool. I'd have freaked the fuck out. but Mr.Sares was able to get over the "I want my son to look like me" factor, thank god.