The thing is, everyone doesn't live in places where there exists a large dating pool (if any, at all) to pick from.
It's not like we can all just hop over to The Abbey and have our pick from a hundred guys that look like they fell out of an Abercrombie & Fitch catalog. There is exactly one gay bar within a 100-mile radius of my house and I don't even bother to go, because every time I've been in there its clientele is 99% obese straight women who wish there were enough out fags in town for them each to be someone's best hag.
Where I live, you either get your BJs from ugly guys, or you do without. In that case, the gloryhole is your best option, because 1.) at least, then, you don't have to see the ugly and 2.) you don't have to bother to explain to the poor guy why he can't have your number.
And, by the way, geting your cock sucked thru a gloryhole is in no way like paying a hooker for sexual favors. When you're just interested in a little one-off, no-strings fun, how does buying your one-night stand dinner & a movie, first, make your actions "morally" superior? |