My experience dating black girls.

They were mostly high school dropouts, some may have graduated though. We all made minimum wage or a little above. I had a college degree and was working on another one at the time but that was the only job I could find. Even after getting two college degrees, I had to work at Taco Bell for a year before getting a job in my field of study - 5 YEARS after graduating! I lived in a rural area and there weren't that many jobs in my field out there - and some actually almost came out and said that they wouldn't hire a woman for that job. They were right on the line of whether I could report them to the EEOC. I figured it would just be my word against theirs and they'd win. Taco Bell was not where I ran across the "Neandrathals" (well, a few of them were - and the lead manager sexually harassed all the female employees, but that's another story), it was a different place, a factory. Taco Bell had a different dynamic because many of my co-workers there were high school and college students. I actually liked some of my co-workers at Taco Bell - I basically liked most of the high school and college students (had a crush on one of the college students too - he was tall and lanky...), but didn't like the older people working there, who were more like the people at the factory.

I'm now looking for work (again!) but have an interview tomorrow.

Hi,

I think with over 70% of black females never marrying they feel it a threat and insult whenever they see a black man with anyone other than black. Especially if he is successful or well educated. In fact, my pastor's wife ( she is white and he is black) said that when they lived further south she was the recipient of open hostility. She said she even had women at her church ask her why she couldnt find a man of her own color to marry when there were so many black women doing without. I do not agree with the crassness of that behavior. Love is hard enough to find. I can however understand the fear and desperation...

I am biracial indian and black
I have had latino meat from various islands, hismanic and black.
I haave dated interracially and know that black guys feel free to date who they want but when it comes to their female counterparts it is a completely different story.I feel sorry for the other races of guys who have dated black girls
Black guys will hit on your girl in front of you
they will ask your girl what can he do (understood it means with the pussy)
since blacks guys believe the rumors of penis size they feel that we are used to the bigger ones and no other race can really satisfy a black woman
but ofcourse they can satisfy and amaze all with their gigantic amazing units.

It's a real double standard that alot of black women are highly frusterated with.
I have dated outside of my race and got the dirty and sexual looks. I been flirted with in descrete and nondiecrete ways while my mate was there.
Some folks feel entitled.

But I have heard from several guys that white chicks are very vocal and you don't have to work hard for the noise.
I've heard that asians chicks are kinky and that black girls work harder in bed.

Well as a black man...I married a black woman..but I had many white girls before that...and after we broke up...a LOT of Puerto Rican woman..you know what...who were the hottest in bed?....One white girl in particular...2 Puerto ricans... Jeez...they wore me out...and my ex wife. Who tasted best...this one Puerto Rican girl..she was absolutely delicious!!! Every parrt of her...from her pussy to her asshole..I would eat her in the middle of Broad St (philly)..she was that good.

I think that all racces of women are freaky. It's just that latinas can do it with ease and not working themselves to a heart attack..

I agree what you said about black guys hitting on your girl. They use to do that shit all the time. Just disrespecting me and her. A lot of times they would just grab her ass or do something to make me fight them. When a lot of them found out I had a big dick, they seemed to make them madder. When my girl would tell them I was the best fuck she ever had, they would go crazy. The hotter the girl I was fucking, the madder they got.

Nice enough to sleep with you? ..my guess is that if black women chose you then you are probably very cute ;-p..

so there's no "nice enough" needed ;-)

Soft kiss..

HI Emjay!


This is the first time we are seeing your pretty face. THough you joined last year welcome and keep posting!

LOL! I was just kidding and yes girls have told me that I really attractive.

When I was dating a black woman who was so very hot, it always blew my mind that black men would get mad at me for dating a black woman. Fortunately for me, she was as confident and quick as she was sexy. (she would give Elle McPherson a run for her money). She knew exactly how to shut them down cold, quick and hard while being classy the whole time. That relationship ended eventually and we're still really good friends.

Fast forward a few years and another very sexy black lady enters my life and picks me up when I wasn't even looking. She was confident, educated, and we just immediately clicked. We dated for a very long time. I was even going to marry her but she ended it. I never really knew why she did, all I can figure out was that she couldn't get past the whole black/white thing when out in public. Maybe she just got cold feet. Don't know.

I do know that they were two of the best times in my life that I'd never trade for anything.

As a younger man i said this is my life and i will live it as i see fit. Many people had problems with what i saw as no problem at all. So because of who we are our relationship is much stronger than a average relationship. So it much more than love. Love is just a begining......

Black women are different with their own men, tougher with more attitude. I could be sexing five black women in the same building before my black buddy get one, and we had the same job, same pay, same intelligence, both us had nice cars, nothing wrong with him. The brothers were like WTF? and I'm like "I don't know but I'm hittin it!" And I still do!

I just cant believe that people can think someone else's relationship is any of their business! Mabye i'm just very reserved but i wouldn't dream of making a comment about the relationship of people i have never met in my life.

I was reading in a science book once that the reason that white men dont date black women to the same extent that black men date white women is because men like their children to look like them. It gives them a sense of security that they are the real father. So if a black man has a kid with a white woman the kid will resemble him more, whereas when a whiteman has a kid with a black woman it wont resemble him to the same extent. So it seems there could be evolutionary reasons for this.

PS: to EMJAY -- I was gonna contact you because your picture is hot but you dont take messages. Mabye you could add me to ur yahoo account, that'd be cool, i love Dutch women, i've went to a few stags nights in Amsterdam. Its a fuckin great city.

well said.