I have removed my warning, because pictures of my pet and the current picture of me with too much make-up and my pet do not seem to invite the undesired PMs I used to get. My original avatar exposed a lot of cleavage, and men seem to think that's a slut uniform or something.

An example of a good message to send:

"Hello! I'm so and so, and after reading some of your posts I wanted to meet you. Can we talk about XYZ topic a little more?"

A bad example:

"Watz up delicious! U look gd. I wanna 2 bang u stoopid!!!!!!!11!!!"

I just want people to write to me the way they would speak to me in person.

Oh. And penises do not impress me, big, or small. I've seen hundreds. I've seen them all. The thing that makes a penis special, is my relationship to the man it grew on. So, I do not want to look at or discuss a strangers genitals in a sexual way. Clinical is fine. Pictures are unneccesary.