Straight Men and Their Assholes

There is nothing gay about inserting a finger in your ass during sex. My most powerful orgasms have happened while a fingertip or small (and I mean small) vibrator was about 1/2" in my ass. It makes my knees weak to think about it.

I've been with one man that has had sex with men but identifies mainly as straight love assplay of any kind. I was also with a man for awhile who identified himself as completely straight who loved getting a rimjob but didn't like any sort of anal penetration. With this particular person I would lick his ass until he was moaning and practically begging me to blow him or let him fuck me. I found this whole thing to be incredibly enjoyable. Now, my husband is one of those guys who thinks any sort of assplay is somehow unmanly or something-- but he's also Catholic which I blame for his general sense of sexual repression.

I was surprised to read this, actually. I think I assumed that since you were so open about who you had sex with, you'd also be the same way about particular acts-- but obviously I made too many assumptions. I have a very high gross-out threshold-- bodily fluids and smells don't really bother me all that much and never have. I won't give a rimjob if the asshole smells like shit and is obviously unclean, but otherwise I'm open to it. For some reason, I really don't mind a little bit of smell with a blowjob, but in general I expect the men I am with to practice some basic hygeine. I expect the ass, balls, cock, and armpits to be reasonably clean, teeth brushed, and hair washed anyway. That's just common courtesy. I don't know, if these guys you're blowing smell bad, hand them some baby wipes! You'd think their mothers would have taught them better!

Anyway, that's my long winded opinion.

That's a great point, man. I'm gay and I just don't enjoy any insertive ass play at all (rimming ok) -- and I know there are many gay guys like me.

Too bad everyone can't just get over the whole gay/straight thing and enjoy whatever happens to feel pleasurable to their bodies.

I have never done this before but I would try it just to see what it is like and if I am missing out on something. It doesn't really seem very appealing to me but I'm an open minded person.

Amen brother! Hallelujah I've seen the light!

Well....I've seen so many galleries out here, but the THINKING str8 man includes a pic or two of his ass!....Dudes, as a gay man, non-threatening and friendly with some women, I know that Ladies love man-butt! Doesn't mean they want to fuck it and turn you into a Bitch, ya know........Give it up, guys!

My most recent ex moved her tongue down to my asshole while giving me a blow job. At first it was weird, but then I started to like the sensation. She fingered me. After that, it wasn't unusual for her to use a small butt plug on me.

Okay, back the truck up. Nobody wants true and independent thought, otherwise we would have to redefine ourselves as all human. I mean we all know that straight people are one kind of human and gay people are another kind of human. They are completely different in physiology as well as philosophy, so there is no way there could possibly be straight guys who enjoy ass play--that automatically makes you gay. Which would mean that if there are any of you gay men out there who don't like ass play, there is no question you are only fooling yourselves no matter how many men you sleep with!
I mean the point to this is obviously to define who is pure and who is not based on sexual activity. Experimental and curious actions or passions do not play a role in self-definition. So its simple, if you fool around with others outside of your designated socio-sexual definition or in ways others would not, you are obviously not pure. Now that we have reached such a grand conclusion I am sure the Natzis would be very proud. Crank up the ovens!

I don't presume homosexuality doesn't exist, but I dont engage in it in any way.

In my opinion, there is NOTHING sexual about a butt. Shit comes out of it. That's my final answer Regis. Some say it's a erogenous, to which I repeat, shit comes out of it. lol

I have however heard of some straight men, who are one hundred percent straight, not "straight" with quotation marks, who say that they like some anal play. HOWEVER, these straight men generally keep that to themselves and their partner. They don't go around telling their friends, because if one straight man goes to a group of straight men talking about he likes to get his ass hole played with, he'd probably get a response anywhere from the guys laughing at him, to the guy seriously thinking he was gay and avoiding him. I've been in groups with lots of straight men, and I have yet to, in all the various buddy groups and crews I've hung with, experience a guy desribe liking his ass played with. Generally a straight man who likes that would keep it to himself.

Now personally, I have a spot right about my right ass cheek, where if you touch it, it's almost like you're touching some magic nerve, it's makes me tense up and feel pleasure and all that. But that doesnt' count as my butthole or anywhere around there. It's just above the cheek, so I guess that counts as half-lower back, half-right ass-cheek lol. But as far as my actual ass/anus is concerned, absolutely not. Even if it was erogenous for me, which it wasn't, I would be completely disgusted by anyone touching it. I myself don't even touch it except when washing. It's just uncanny and unnerving to have someone touch it and most straight men, not "straight" probably would agree. The straight men who do find it erogenous, probably wouldn't tell you unless they're the extremely sexually liberated kind....which may mean that they might be "straight". lol

As I said, I know of straight men who find assholes erogenous, but they don't blab about it, and usually they keep it to themselves and their partner. Most straight men however just based on the principals of straight-cademia simply wouldn't allow it.

A "thinking straight man" would include a picture of his butt, not his anus/asshole.

Some guys know that there are ladies out there who like a guy with a muscular butt so they include the ass as a whole unit, with the cheeks firmly closed and the anus hidden from view, lol.

Ladies love man-butt is true, but it depends on what you describe as man-butt. Generally when ladies say they like a guy's ass they are talking about his ass cheeks being muscular. NOT his anus. Most woman who enjoy a man's anus are the real free sex liberation types. But generally the everywoman doesn't like anus, rather cheek.

I am new here as you see i dont post much in foruns but wildhoney you are completly wrong.

I'm hoping this was tongue in cheek.

I think the rainbow peace sign gives it away.

Well, a guilty pleasure of mine that turns me on BIG time is in straight porn when the guy is fucking the girl and it's a shot from behind and you can see his ass and hole. I guess since it's kinda "taboo" (see above) it kinda turns me on that I'm seeing it and that he can't see me doing so. :)

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