Straight Men and Their Assholes

rondevon... im not sure a definitive assessment of "straight" is the most accurate description for ur buddy.

personally, i'll take a rimmer... but nothing goes in... I

think it's gross back there anyway. unless im fresh out of the shower, she should stay away for her own personal safety haha...

I am not sure if it is straight guys who dont like arse play, or the straight women they are sleepingh with that do not want to go there?? :-)

I love my hubby to death and am very sexually open, but FOR me a straight woman, I am NOT licking or rimming any guys arsehole!! I dont care if it is shaved or clean as a whistle....just not going there, the smell alone during blow jobs sometimes puts me off....it is in no way arousing to me as a woman...**I am like manlybanisters ....feel free to rim me , but I am not going there with you **

Most men I play with are 100% hetro. Some like arse play, some absolutely hate it, I think it depends on the guy, his life circumstances, sexual experience and then just personal preference.

I would say though that straight women are far less likely to want to finger men's butts or rim men, than straight men are to women....so maybe straight men are not so into arse play due to the fact that most women are very squeemish about doing it for them??

Honey

and plus, im not really a huge fan of giving anal to a woman either... basically she's gotta reallly want it. given my dedication to her comfort i think its just that the risk of pain there is way too high unless its what she wants/needs.

Honey , your friend is bisexual...straight men do not let men suck their cocks.


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Honey

OK, If we need a label I'll go with BI. I tend to agree with wannabethere's view on that subject though. I proposed to my friend in subject, that we have a living together, I LOVE YOU, relationship & he flat told me that He would live with me If he could still have his Girlfriend & that he would never love me, 'cause he's not gay. But, he did agree that BI would probably work for him. Best of both worlds as far as I see it. But, not for me.

I guess I never knew straight men weren't allowed to enjoy this.

My wife gives the most amazing blowjobs and really gets into it. She loves licking and sucking on my balls and one time she pushed my legs up and began licking the perineum area behind my balls. OMG, did that ever feel good! She had her hand around my cock and felt it surge even harder. She looked up with a grin and said "oooo... you liked that!" I muttered something unintelligible and then she slowly worked her tongue back to my ass. I could barely contain myself. After she had rimmed me for about 10 minutes she gently pressed her finger to my ass and began sliding it in. I was a bit shocked at first but as she massaged my prostate she took my cock back in her mouth as far as she could. Minutes later, I had one of the strongest orgasms of my life. That was years ago and since then has become a regular part of our repertoire.


Edit: And showering and washing everywhere is definitely a prerequisite. But then, we usually like to do that before any kind of sex.

That's been said a lot here, and think it's become the general consensus of this forum.

I don't necessarily agree. In several cultures, "gay" refers to the guy who performs oral and/or receives anal only. For example, that's how it's widely seen in Mexico and Central America. Personally, I don't think that definition is better or worse, it's just a different way of looking at things.

Some guys can get their dick sucked by just about anybody. They don't have to have any attraction to the person that's doing it. All they have to do is get hard, lay back and enjoy the sensations. To say that makes them bisexual is misleading because to me, that presupposes that they become aroused thinking about men's bodies, which is not the case.

It's certainly true that many straight guys could never have their dick sucked by a guy and in fact get turned off even thinking of it. But when the social pressures shift, I do believe that some men who only get turned on by women's bodies can enjoy a bj from a guy. As RideRocket says, "beauty is only a light switch away ...".

Thank -You, lostmymind. That's the moanin I'm talking about. Nothin' gay about it.

Let me preface this by saying , I know I am not expert, but I am a swinger and I am around sex and sexual activity A LOT! We get to see and interact with hundreds of different people every year.

My life is surrounded by gay/bi and hetrosexual sex and activites. In the scene we are in, there really is no judgement on your sexual preference, just a mutual code to not broach on anothers preferences.

I disagree with the statement that a man who gets blowjobs from men is not bisexual. I think the definition "straight" is just that. They do not enjoy ,fantasies or participate in sexual activity with men, full stop.

I know many bi men and many straight men and we all have very frank and explicit discussions on sexuality and preferences.

The straight men express NO interest in men sexually, Not even as a reciever of head.

To me , I do not get off on women, period. No err ummm "why not I am horny" etc or " hell ,they are just giving me head."....nothing turns me on about women at all ( sexuallY) so sex or sexual activity is pointless...I am straight....I would definately call a man who enjoys arse rimming ( as stated) and blow jobs from men bisexual.

Honey

Honey, have you come across any straight men who like anal play in your swinging world?

Earlogjam - Oh god yes. Lots of them , I have fucked one with a strap on, he liked to be dominated though, so that was more his thing.

I think lots of men like arse play..I know my hubby would if i went there...I am just not going there It makes me feel sick ....I am just not into the smell or the visual or...well anything about it .....I guess if I was a good wife i'd just suck it up But I wont. ( he actually never asks for it, and I think i tired it once when drunk and he scooted off the bed...but if i massage his area between balls and arse when giving head he goes off....so i am just guessing he would have a sensitive g spot)

I think guys just have a less sensitive nose and a bigger "sex take over my brain dept " during sex.

I dont know many women in real life ( swingers) who like to actually do the anal play on men.

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Honey

Pussies, underarms, asses... with soap and a hot shower they all taste and smell the same.

Okay, pussies taste better.

Just posted on this somewhere else....but YES...I love anal play, but the wife has refused to go along anymore. She feels it somewhat unnatural and dirty for a man to be fingered or fucked. She has done it in the past and knows how much I enjoy it, though it has to be during the heat of passion.

During heated foreplay I long for her finger to at least rim my hole,and would love to be fingered or fucked, but she refuses. I've even taken her hand and placed it there in need of some attention and she got mad !

I once purchased a Anal Play instructional DVD and asked her to watch it hoping it would break some boundries. Nope ! I on the other hand am willing to do anything she asks, no boundries. But it doesn't seem to go both ways.

avg-dick, makes the point that I was making earlier. That's why my friend still comes to visit me for sex. Avg.find a nice gay man to help you out. No love connection involved, if need be.

I am straight, but I don't mind my asshole being played with. Just not by another guy.