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Mumzi · 07-10-2006

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Originally Posted by zaza

I had always thought that it was best to pick the right moment to have sex for the first time, when you both feel ready. For me the guy I first had sex with had built up the experience gradually.This will also apply to you, you may not be ready on your wedding night for full penetrative sex.

Exactly. You may not be able to have intercourse the first time or the second.
I'm not sure if you mean you are 6" girth, but my husband used to be almost 6 & 1/2 when he had a strong erection. That was 20 years ago.

I was not a virgin, but I had little experience. One day when we were just cuddling he told me he wished we could have the romantic, heated first time, but in realty that might not happen.
We did talk about the fact that it might not be that great. That made more sense than not saying anything and when the moment arrived, things go downhill.

We did not have intercourse on the first 3 or 4 tries. When he was able to get in about an inch, he had to just stop there. It was just too uncomfortable.
We actually did that quite a few times and just stayed in that position for 10-15 min.
One day he was able to get in a little more and then more and that was how it went!

I think having a sense of humor about it helped a lot. What can you do but laugh. All you can think is "no one would belive this".

You two need to talk. If you can't talk about sex......well, let's just say you need to begin now.