Alex: Congratulations on your restraint. I am about your size and my wife is a smaller woman about one foot shorter in height than me. I had the same fears. My cousins who had seen my penis when we were teenagers told me that I would hurt any girl. My wife and I were both virgins on our wedding night. My suggestions are to communicate now with your wife about sex. Just talk about it as you are together. Tell her that you will be gentle and plan on being very gentle. That was the one mistake I made. I thought I would bring my wife to orgasm like a stud the first time we had sex. I was rough and thought that orgasms came thru lots of gyrating and banging. Wrong... Wrong ...Wrong. Your wife as well as you yourself will probably be uptight and somewhat nervous on your first time. Get you some Astroglide lube. Before you enter, engage in lots of foreplay in a gentle fashion. Do lots of kissing, fondling, nuzzling of her breast and sucking of her breasts. Explore her body carressingly and gently all the while telling her how much you love her and are so glad you married her. I would say spend 20 to 30 minutes or more on foreplay. Foreplay relaxes your sweetie and arouses her as well as you. Then slather your dick with lots of astroglide and proceed gently into her vagina. Make sure that the lube is completely over all your head and all your shaft as wet as you can make it. Have a towel next to the bed to wipe your hands after you have slathered your dick down with lube. Once into the vagina, you may encounter her hymen, and if you do, shove gently, very gently past it. Again, thrust very gently and stop if sex becomes painful for her. I hope for you that your sweetie is like mine. She is a smaller woman but very very deep. I have heard her complain on very few occasions.

Again, push gently into the vagina with a well lubed dick and be gentle with your thrusting. Enjoy the process. Once into the vagina, your dick will be on fire and all those years of saving yourself will prove that you have found the greatest toy a man can find--- a warm, enveloping, moist vagina that sends shock waves of pleasure thoughout your body and mind as nothing else can do. Enjoy your restraint big guy. Chances are you will have no problem and if you run into any discomfort that you cause, withdraw somewhat and take it slow and gentle. I envy your first time experience. You are going to be numbed and dazed with pleasure when you orgasm. As you grow together on your honeymoon, start thinking about her pleasure and how you can give her maximum pleasure. Lube up her clitoris and stoke it gently with your fingers or tongue. Be quick to try woman on top and let your sweetie work your dick like a gearshift lever. Many women orgasm easily that way. With woman on top, you can kiss her nipples and send both her and you over the edge quickly that way. Good luck man. PM me if you have specific concerns. We are alot alike in our sexual history.