Hate it?--Period.

Originally Posted by mercurialbliss

Don't forget the mater paneer, naan, vindaloo, gulab jamon, and Kingfisher. Actually, I prefer a bold cabernet with my lamb. After I drain the bottle we can exercise with abandon.

Originally Posted by crowdpleaser

This is my first thread. Whoohoo!

How many guys out there hate having sex with women on their period?

Originally Posted by Lordpendragon

I am going to have to leave any beer and breads to you MB - they bloat me too much. As for the abandon - give me an hour of blissful digestion and a brandy and the fuse is lit by the fuel of the sutra.

Indian food is the food of loving.

Originally Posted by HollyBlue

Eating Indian food is so good for me it's either a Culinary Orgasm or a Spiritual Epiphany...I'm not sure which...

Originally Posted by amiegrrl

He won't eat my pussy when I'm menstruating though, which is a bummer.

Originally Posted by Love-it

Tip of the month: After you shower jump onto the bed with your ass up in the air and let the licking begin. Gravity is your friend.

Originally Posted by crowdpleaser

Tonight she picked me up (normally I drive but lost my license from a DUI a month ago) to go get some mexican food and we each had a couple Margs. We got back to my place and she went to "freshen up". She returned from the restroom letting me know she took a shit (in not so many words) and that she IS starting her period.

Moments later (she was getting me worked up) she says "so, do you want to have sex?" I responded "a second ago you said you were bleeding from the vagina and now you want to have sex?" To which she continued to try and talk me in to it. She then decided she was tired and went home after explaining how she feels bad about it but does not like giving me head.

Am I an Asshole?

Originally Posted by tripod

She came out of the bathroom after taking a shit and told you that she is on her period? Wow... this chick is fucking CHARMING!!! Are you an asshole for not really being in the mood? Hardly... number one... shits and sex don't mix... who the hell takes craps at night anyway? Don't most people go in the morning? I dunno... this chick is a trip, I guess it all depends on how hot she was right? lol!!!! Good Luck...

Originally Posted by snoozan

I've never dated anyone long term that has a problem with it, and most likely wouldn't last long in a relationship with someone who hated it as much as you seem to. In my experience as a woman, most men can be warmed up to the idea. Also, there's a huge difference between the very beginning or end of a period and the really heavey day or two. I get extremely horny right before and right after my period starts. I doublt you're the only one out there that doesn't like it, though. In fact, I'm sure of it. So that alone doesn't make you an asshole.

Let me offer you a suggestion that you can take as you wish. If you have sex in the shower while a woman is on her period, everything washes dowen the drain very quickly, and you don't even really see the blood etc.

As to the last part of your post, this kinda made me cringe, "a second ago you said you were bleeding from the vagina and now you want to have sex?" I guess there could have been more gracious ways to say the same thing. Whatever. That's not a big deal really. The salient points seem to be that a.) you were in a relationship for 4 years, and b.) you broke up. As AlteredEgo said, you are entitled to your preferences. Relationships are all about compatibilty and it seems like this is just another place where you and this ex are not compatible.

Your argument/discussion/whatever seems like it probably wasn't just about the period/head thing, but more about things in your past relationship. My advice? Move on so both of you can find other people. I've never seen FWB work between two people that have just broken up. It's really just prolonging the relationship.

Well, that's my opinion on more than you asked. Take it as you will.

Originally Posted by tripod

She came out of the bathroom after taking a shit and told you that she is on her period? Wow... this chick is fucking CHARMING!!! Are you an asshole for not really being in the mood? Hardly... number one... shits and sex don't mix... who the hell takes craps at night anyway? Don't most people go in the morning? I dunno... this chick is a trip, I guess it all depends on how hot she was right? lol!!!! Good Luck...