Actually, I am in a polyamourous 3 with a man with a rather large one, and a woman who likes to take both of us in the same night. Sometimes he goes first (he's 8X8..no lie) and it's lovely, then I go....and I feel no difference. She's as lovely and enfolding as she always is. In fact, if I go first, she's rather tight, *still* (after 3 children) and if it's just her and I, it takes a while to "loosen her up" so to speak. Yes, kegels (she still does 'em) and, yes, practice. Just keep at it. And the cuckolding may be a fantasy (go for 'em all, I say) but remember that mother nature doesn't respond to wive's tales.
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best,
S. |