Ok - this might sound kinda weird, but Remy is my bf's other bf.
Here's a pic of us all together at this year's Fair Day in Sydney
http://boltdj.com/fairday.jpg

If you don't believe this unothordox relationship of ours, check out Remy's gaydar page (you'll see his partner link, links to my bf, who then links to me ;)
http://gaydar.com.au/jesuisavailable

PS. Sorry for the double posting